Disturbing...ugh

[time2moveon]

Well, I woke up this morning to an extremely disturbing e-mail. My ex e-mailed me and thinks the guy im talking to in Belgium is taking his place and pretty much said I dont care or love him anymore and im being inconciderate.....

 

Not the case. My friend in Belgium is supporting me with my broken heart in which he just got out of a bad relationship himself. So him and I are talking about our problems together. Yes we like each other and my ex knows that, but he thinks hes trying to fill the void he once had in my heart. No, not true. I LOVE MY EX! I want him back, I do...and I miss him to death but he dosent notice it. Now I think iv screwed up...help me

[NJRon]

It's none of your ex's business what you do or who you do it with. You didn't screw anything up. He screwed things up by breaking up with you.

 

Don't twist this around to defend his actions.

[Itsok]

Your ex is truly mental. He breaks it off with you, then gets angry that you are even talking to another man who lives in Belgium nonetheless.

 

Stay as far away from your ex as possible, and do no contact. Change your information and don't let him contact you. You have your life, he has his new life which he wanted...it's time for him to grow up and realize that if he breaks it off with you that GASP at one point or another you may date again. How tragic for him that you won't be waiting around like a wounded puppy.

 

Move forward, ignore him, and P.S. your ex is weird.

[RandomAdvisor]

I agree. It's absolutely none of his business who you speak to. He lost all right to know who you had in your life when he took himself out of it.

 

Do you really want to get back together with someone who seems so possesive and controlling?

[TiredMan]

Well, I woke up this morning to an extremely disturbing e-mail. My ex e-mailed me and thinks the guy im talking to in Belgium is taking his place and pretty much said I dont care or love him anymore and im being inconciderate.....

 

Not the case. My friend in Belgium is supporting me with my broken heart in which he just got out of a bad relationship himself. So him and I are talking about our problems together. Yes we like each other and my ex knows that, but he thinks hes trying to fill the void he once had in my heart. No, not true. I LOVE MY EX! I want him back, I do...and I miss him to death but he dosent notice it. Now I think iv screwed up...help me

 

 

That is NOT what you said in your previous post.

 

"Well, since my ex has left me, iv been talking to a good friend of mine in Belgium whom iv known longer than my ex, we are concidering ourselves "dating" right now because of the fact of where he lives and where I am. My counselor told me to do good things for myself and move on and thats what could show my ex, "Oh gosh, shes moving on, I dont wanna looser her." and thats exactly whats happened! My new..I guess "boyfriend" is filling in that gad my ex had in my heart and is helping me mend it right now, and im helping him too for the fact he just got out of a loving relationship too and were kinda helping each other back to our feet."

[annie24]

well, whatever your status is with Mr. Belgium, it doesn't matter to your ex. He broke up with you, you can do whatever you want now.

 

forget the ex.