Im sick of everything

[Warbeast]

Why does everything bad happen to me? Me and my friend Brian met 2 girls named Jennie and Jesika. Well at first Brian was supposed to go for Jennie who is single, and I was going for Jesika who has a boyfriend, but he treats her like crap. Well we are all good friends now, and me and Jesika are slowly becoming best friends. Because we talked baout that today. Well I am really really starting to like her as in falling for her, and Brian doesn't like Jennie and he has already fallen for Jesika, and Jennie now likes me a lot. Well I know Jesika likes me, and her and her boyfriend are having serious relationship problems and they will most likely be breaking up soon. And she was like I have all these people that care about me right in front of me(Meaning me, brian, and Jennie) and Im not noticing that. So I was like I know, and you got one right in front of you talkign to you on the IM. Then she goes I couldn't be with you. I was like huh? Why not, you said you liked me, we both like each other and I am right in front of you. She was like well because of Jennie. * * * kind of bull * * * * is that, just because her friend likes me I can't have her? Everytime I have feelings for a girl they are * * * *ed over, and she even has feelings for me. That is stupid. I don't even know why I bother even being friends with anyone or thinking about girls all they do is hurt me. I mean come on I am right in front of her. I care a lot about her, I am always there for her. I Have done nothing wrong, I even told Jennie that I like Jesika a lot, and she knows that I have way more feelings for Jesika then I ever would for her. What is the big deal? I mean Brian is my friend and all, and I know he is falling for her to, but Idc love is the most important thing to me, and I don't want anything to stand in my way. I know I will fall in love with her because Im already almost there. And we are such good friends and I know we would have a awesome relationship together. She knows that to, we have talked about it. But just because her friend likes me, we can't be together. I feel like crying or dieing it doesn't matter anymore. I hate my life, and I have been single for 3 years and I can't hardly take it anymore. I might as well kill myself, if no one is going to love me. I can't go much longer being alone, I have great friends and my mom and I know they all love me, but it isn't the same love, I feel empty being without someone to hold and love forever. I don't know what to do anymore, please someone help me give me some advice or talk to me Idk just help before I go crazy....

[Relationship Coach]

As much as I would love to give you advice, I can't. I can't read your post because the font is too small. Repost please

 

RC

[Warbeast]

As much as I would love to give you advice, I can't. I can't read your post because the font is too small. Repost please

 

RC

 

SOrry I reposted, please help.

[ComputerGuy]

OK dude, I know you're after help, but paragraphs are your friend. I want to read it, but I can hardly focus this late at night as it is.

[Relationship Coach]

WB,

I understand how you feel but what you need to realize is you cannot control how she feels. She obviously values her friendship with Jennie and does not want to lose it over a guy. On the other hand you and Brian are in a similar spot. As far as I'm concerned, Jesika is in a relationship no matter how bad it is, she is still in it. You need to respect that and back off 100%. If they break up and she wants to go out with you fine but what if she wants to go out with Brian? Then what? Jennie may have some real deep feelings for you as well, you just may be so blinded by your feelings for Jesika you can't see them or plain just don't want to.

 

What a mess.

 

RC

[Warbeast]

WB,

I understand how you feel but what you need to realize is you cannot control how she feels. She obviously values her friendship with Jennie and does not want to lose it over a guy. On the other hand you and Brian are in a similar spot. As far as I'm concerned, Jesika is in a relationship no matter how bad it is, she is still in it. You need to respect that and back off 100%. If they break up and she wants to go out with you fine but what if she wants to go out with Brian? Then what? Jennie may have some real deep feelings for you as well, you just may be so blinded by your feelings for Jesika you can't see them or plain just don't want to.

 

What a mess.

 

RC

 

YEa you might be right, so do you think I should try to work things out with Jennie? Or just back off on both and see what happens?

[Warbeast]

Well Jesika broke up with her boyfriend tonight. And we are going to hang out tomorrow..So I guess things are looking up. Do you guys think I should go for her now, or just let things play through?