so i met a guy

[venus777]

I posted an ad on an online thing. most of the responses were lame and i had pretty much forgotten about it when i got an email from a guy that seemed pretty cool. and when i checked out his myspace profile that he sent me he seemed like he could be pretty attractive (never sure until you meet and talk to someone). anyways, when i replied i sent him a link to my myspace profile and a short email, saying i couldn't write much cause i was at work. he sent me a request to be friends really late at night but did not send me a message or anything. should i just wait until he writes me? or should i write him? i just don't know if he thought i might be attractive or not...

silly, silly, this is why i don't like dating, such silly dilemmas.

[arwen]

Well, why not write him what you'd write to a friend? Just say hi, ask him how his day was and maybe add a little something interesting about yourself?

 

ilse

[venus777]

hmmm... that's a good idea, but i would think if he liked me, he'd have written me the same already.

i think i might stick it out, cause in the past i always am the one that tried the most and i just don't want to get into something like that again. i want to date someone that i don't have to chase...

[Ghostrider4042005]

yes but maybe he thinks you like him the same so maybe he's waiting on you to write not everybody can fall in love some have to chase it down n tackle it but i'd say write him

[ocrob]

I don't think you have anything to lose by writing him. It is not like you know each other or you have become emotionally attached. I hate when people request to be on my friends list. It seems these people just want to have as many people on there as they can. With that being said, I would guess he finds you attractive. I don't know too many guys that would ask a woman to be on their friend list unless they think they are attractive. It seems to be a bit of a trophy thing. Meaning people like to have attractive people on their friend list to make themselves look better. Myspace is defiitely a strange space. lol I am casually dating someone from their and she drive me nuts.

[venus777]

yeah i just sent him a short email asking how was his day, we'll see. he also has a little girl (he's 27, so just one year older than me), so i'd have to *really* like him to get involved with him, ya know? cause that's a lot to take on if it got serious or something, depending on the circumstances... we'll see what happens.

[ocrob]

Good luck Venus.

[musicguy]

yeah, keep in touch with him. Ya never know what'll happen. Good luck.

[ShySoul]

Keep in touch with him. Maybe it will lead to more. Maybe it will just be a friendship. At the worse you write a couple times and then move on to talking to other people. But what is the harm in trying?