Nothing I can do?

[USMCElites]

My former (ex) girlfriend went out for about 3 months... I know it's short compared to a lot of peoples relationships on here... But I really felt something for her. Seriously, I was so unbelievably crazy about her for every second that we spent together. We spent the Super Bowl together last Sunday, and I guess this is what hits me the hardest. We went over her grandparents house with her family and everything to watch it. We spend every second of it talking, joking, and cuddling with each other. I had one of the best times of my life with her that night. I don't know if this was my fault or something, but yesterday (Monday), she comes into school late and I asked where she was. She tells me "She got in a car accident". I could only talk to her for a second, and all I could say was "WHAT? ARE YOU OK?" and we had to go to class. After school I got to talk to her and she's acting all sad about it and would barely talk to me. I'm so concerned and wanted to know what happened and if she's ok. So I'm sitting there askin' her stuff, and she's pretty much not talking to me. Then her "best" friend comes up and says "What the h*ll is wrong with you, can't you see she's traumatized"... or some crap like that. That just made me so pissed, I just walked away and went home. A few minutes later she calls me and asks me why I left. I don't really say anything, but "I don't know, I'm mad." And then she tells me it's a joke. She never got in a car accident at all. I mean seriously, I'm so worried about her and then that freak walks up and says that to me. What would you do! So now, we're pretty much not together and not on the best terms.. she says she really just wants to be friends. I don't know if this was my fault or something just waiting to happen. Please let me know what you guys think

[friscodj]

And then she tells me it's a joke. She never got in a car accident at all. I mean seriously, I'm so worried about her and then that freak walks up and says that to me. What would you do!

 

What?!?!?!?!

 

Somethings in life you don't joke about, and this is one of them. I'd be really pissed too...and want to know the purpose of this "joke"...

 

I don't even know what to think of someone who does that...

[USMCElites]

God, I know dude. I mean I would understand if it was something little. And then she also said, "Well you should have known it was a joke." She's late for school and tells me she got in an accident... What do think that I'm going to assume?

[annie24]

She sounds pretty immature.

[friscodj]

She sounds pretty immature.

 

Immature and crazy perhaps...you're lucky USMC that she's an "ex"...let's keep it that way...OK?

[USMCElites]

Its just so hard to put those times behind and I want to believe she still likes me, but I dont know what to believe anymore.

[friscodj]

Its just so hard to put those times behind and I want to believe she still likes me, but I dont know what to believe anymore.

 

Oh I know that feeling. You'll totally meet someone else and better than this girl to make more great memories with...I guarantee it...

[USMCElites]

I need some kind of change where everywhere I look I don't remember her and the things we did. Theres nothing I can do at the age of 16 though is there Like a BIG change

[friscodj]

I need some kind of change where everywhere I look I don't remember her and the things we did. Theres nothing I can do at the age of 16 though is there Like a BIG change

 

There's nothing you can do at any age bro...

 

Trust me, you'll hurt for a while, hurt really badly at times, but it will go away for sure. Then someone else will come along and you'll be a better partner for having gone through this pain...