I know girls dont need guys but some are worth a shot...

[xxsupaxeroxx]

There was this girl I was dating casually that I really fell for recently. The chemistry was there everyone was good but as things progressed, something im not use to happened. I wanted to really start seeing her romantically and hinted too things not just being what they were, which was good... I dunno just picture being single and meeting someone great and just only being able to reach a certian point in a relationship... and she avoids everything I say about it and tries to pretend things are the same and pretend we dont need to discuss it... what do I do? i dont want to let it go because we vibe so well, shes just been hurt by guys... but how do I ask her to have trust and give it a shot, I know she has feelings for me, and she just feels she can choose when to decide her feelings, but in the mean time i must say it hurts

[DN]

How long have you been dating? I would be careful about pressuring her for any sort of commitment or declaration too soon. Patience may be the key here if you have only been going out for a short time.

[Relationship Coach]

Show her, don't tell her how you feel for now. Let her dictate her own pace or you could lose her, be patient. Trust is something that comes with time and that is just something you can't rush.

 

RC

[shelbymustang_fan]

I just posted a similar question in this forum...in general terms though.

 

Anyway, I agree with the others, You cant make somebody trust you...that must come with time. But if you two are comfortable together, she should at least be able to tell you why she doesn't want to talk about it at this time. Good luck.