How to approach her?

[Slain67]

Hi, everyone. I'm a long time reader, second time writer I suppose you could say. I didn't know exactly which section of the forums to post this at but I think this section is the most closely related.

 

Anyway, I have developed a real strong crush on a girl (not gonna mention names) I met in my chemistry class at a local community college. I sit at the same table she does in a group of 4 during the lab. hours. Her, I, and the others at the table get a long pretty well, we joke around, and just try to make things fun during lab. However, like I said before, I really like this girl. She's always smiling, is very nice, likes to laugh, and the list goes on and on.

 

The problem is that I want to get to know her better, as friends or as g/f & b/f (preferably I just can't find the right time to do it, though. We have class on Monday, Wed., and Friday and labs on Mon. and Wed. The labs usually last 3 hours but we're usually too busy and with the other 2 at the table, its hard to talk to her one on one. I've tried leaving at the same time as she does but I always screw up and don't catch her on time. Luckly, I've found her at link removed and thought I should contact her by saying something subtle like "What the...? You have a myspace website too? I guess its true that everyone really has one." or something like that. I don't wanna make it look like I'm stalking her 'cause I'm not... but I feel like I'm gonna go insanely depressed from loneliness and do all sorts of crazy l things like stalking.

 

Please help me out! I just need to think of a way to stay in contact with her and hope that it builds into a more serious relationship above friends.

[atraceofblood]

hey since you found her on myspace, you could tell her in class that you stumbled on her myspace and if you can add her. Then you could always get private time to talk to her.

[Slain67]

I was planning on doing it online through a pm and I'm a little too shy to say that to her in class, so I might not be able to do it. However, I suppose asking her in real life would increase my chances of her accepting my invitation to a friendship on myspace, though I doubt she'd reject it anyway.

 

Thanks for replying atraceofblood! 55 views and only 1 reply? Does everyone agree with atraceofblood or do you guys have anything else to add or change?

[NJRon]

You'll have a much greater chance of presenting yourself as confident if you speak to her in person. You don't have to ask her out right away, but I agree that you should mention the myspace account to her verbally.

 

However, the fact that you searched on there for her is a tell-tale giveaway that you are interested in her. You don't just "run accross" someones myspace, unless she posted in a forum or something.