Need advice

[Wollie]

I was talking to a guy i met a week ago at a camping site on the phone last night. I asked him if he wanted to have a relationship together in the furture maybe or if he wanted just sex and stuff when we were about to see eachother. He said whatever i wanted he would be happy.I am confused. Does this mean he really does want to be with my as a gf or just sexual stuff? I thought that he would say if he was looking for a relationship if he liked me that way. I dont want to have a guy that just wants sex and only talks abot sex when we speak or see eachother. I dont know if he is right for me.

[DN]

Tell him you want to see if a relationship would work for both of you. If you feel he is using you after a short time then dump him.

[coollady1957]

It seems the only thing you can do is tell him what you want and what your expectations are on the not having sex right away. See if he is truly wants to give a relationship a try and you will soon know if it all feels right, and will get a sense of what he is really after.

[Wollie]

Yeahi see what you mean. Its just that, at the moment i have no idea what i want. i am new to the whole dating adn relationship thing so i am unsure. But i guess if it feels wrong it feels wrong. At the moment it is just friends.