weird kissing!

[sprkal]

So I kissed a friend of a friend at a club a couple of weeks ago and he asked me to dinner. I said yes, but was a bit unsure as his appearance is not of the clean cut variety of guys I normally go for.

 

I had a great time on our date and afterwards he kissed me on the lips just once, which I thought was very sweet.

 

I spent some time with him again last night at a club with mutual friends and we had a great time dancing and kissing every now and then.

 

The kissing thing confuses me however, as he doesnt seem keen on long kisses - its always just one kiss on the lips, no tongues, barely any wettness at all... I'm not sure what to make of this! I go in for a bit of a longer kiss and he pulls back... I have no idea why! I don't think its that I'm a bad kisser or anything like that... could it be that he's trying not to rush the sexual side of things (he sees me as a 'good girl' as opposed to him being a 'bad boy') or what?? Any ideas?

[romanticlover]

Heh I get that from my girlfriend who says she loves me. I feel like I have a batter chance if kissing a stranger than I do her. Very discouraging when you can't even kiss the girl or guy you are with. My girl pulls away snd just pecks after a few minutes.

[millaj]

It could be your breath, or it could be that he just doesn't like to kiss that long. Me personally I don't like to french kiss unless i'm making love or four play.

[Arrowsmith]

Different people have different kissing styles.

[darkblue]

Make it last longer.

[LiquidCherry]

I'm not comfortable with much more than a peck when I'm out in public regardless of how much I like the guy. Maybe he's the same way. If you like him I'd wait an see how he kisses you in private. After some time if all you is still just a peck I'd decide if a peck is all you want.

[ocrob]

It sounds like he is being respectful. I think it is so funny when a woman questions a man for being respectful. I am guessing he really likes you. He is being totally respectful and I am guessing he really likes you. I can only say that because I know how I am. I will hit on a woman I like, but if I think she is conservative, then I will hold back. He probably respects you so much. Most guys want immediate gratification, but he seems to want more. I hope that is the case. If that is the case, then you have to show him affection. He is exercising restraint because he likes you. If you like him, then stick your tongue down his throat and caress his leg. You will know soon. It is so easy to respect a woman that you like. Unlike trying to get laid for the night, you want many nights and a lot of kissing and hugging. yes, that may be me, but most guys are not nice unless they truly like you.

[ShySoul]

As Arrowsmith said, different people have different kissing styles. Try not to focus on how he kisses, but the feelings involved in the kiss.

 

Also, what is his personality? He may just be someone not comfortable kissing in public, or someone who is shy about kissing in general. If you want a longer kiss, let him know it. Hold him there, kiss longer and deeper.