What's the next move?

[bouldersweden]

I went met a girl through some friends at the bar last Thursday. We had a good time and I got her number and MSN address. We caught each other on MSN Sunday and Monday. I asked her if she wanted to get a drink on Wednesday, but I had an emergency at work and had to take a rain check. I asked her for a rain check and told her that I would probably be back at that same bar on Thursday. Well... I had more issues on Thursday and couldn't make it (family). This really has been happenstance but I need to know where to go from here. I didn't say that I would meet her at the bar on Thursday, but I'm guessing that she was casually looking for me. She seems interested, but I don't know where to go from here. Give her a call tonight? maybe try to get together tomorrow? I know I'm running out of time here in terms of catching her interest, but I don't know what to do about that. Any suggestions? I was thinking about drinks or maybe an impromptu bottle of wine and a movie... We're familiar enough with each other that going over to her house or mine wouldn't be odd (we have friends in common and go to the same school). What do you think? what's the next move?

[DN]

Call her and ask her if she would like to do one of the things you suggested.

[princess81]

I would go with the face to face since you say she wouldnt have a problem with that you could call first common curtesy take some flowers when you go that never fails.

[coollady1957]

IF I were you I would just go ahead and get back in touch with her. Set something up for a casual dinner somewhere or a movie. See obviously must be somewhat interested, so just pursue it at a slow but steady pace and see what happens.