Kissing.. advice

[Nate2245]

alright.. im 15.. new to the whole "Dating" thing i have my first girlfriend atm...just a few days ago i had my first kiss with her it was a very long one actualy.. lol but i have a few questions.. While your kissing what else can you do? (with your hands ect...) This is my question mainly to the girls to see what they like there boyfriend to do to them while kissing..

Thanks, Nate

[hk87]

Well, since you are new to each other, don't let your hands wander too much, especially if you in public! Maybe stroke her hair, cup her face in your hands, rub her back gently.

It's all about experimenting, seeing what she likes, ask her even!

 

take it easy, Hk87

[ShySoul]

First, congratulations on your first kiss!

 

Kissing is natural. It may take a little time, but the hardest part is getting over the nervousness that you may feel. You want to lose yourself in the moment and just enjoy what is happening. Once you do, things happen naturally and you won't have to think about it. In fact, thinking is the enemy when it comes to kissing. It distracts you and makes you more nervous.

 

Since you are new to this, take it slow. You don't want to be groping private areas, obviously. That stuff will come later, once you really have gotten serious. Really, if you are focused on the kiss and savoring it, anything can create a pleasant sensation. Simple holding her waist, her hands, cupping her face, gently brushing the hair out of her face..... all of these things are nice to her. Just enjoy the kiss and see what happens.

[Nate2245]

Thanks for the response! .. I was trying to enjoy the kiss, while i was also trying to make sure i didnt screw up.. my hand was just around her since we were sitting on a coach.. so thats how i was sitting. Thanks for the advice!

[ShySoul]

It's hard to mess up kissing. Don't slobber on her, don't ram your tongue down her throat, don't touch her in inappropriate places.... pretty much the only ways I can think of to mess it up. Otherwise enjoy. Kissing is fun, isn't it?

[Nate2245]

yes, I was pretty much just following along to what she did. i guess it turned out pretty good since she wanted more