NC 20 days and now ?

[metro23]

Day 20 of no contact, after she told me not call anymore. I received a hang up call at 6.30am, I awoke at 10.30am and called the number back and went to voice mail, the message sounded very similiar to the ex's brother, but a name was not mentioned on the VM so I could not confirm. She shares a place with her brother so I do know his voice.

 

If I assume that it was her calling, what would be the motivation.

Has anyone here had a similiar experience with an ex or actually been the ex calling and hanging up, what was the motivation and result ?

 

thanks in advance

[emma34]

I definitely would say this kind of thing happens all the time. Maybe she was drunk or really lonely or something...I don't know. But I would just write it off if I were you - if it was actually important, she would call u back.

[Need1ozHope]

Does your name start with an A? My phone sometimes calls the first person in my phonebook on accident. Take emmas advice. I have learned to do the same...

 

"If she wants you back, she will call... If she doesnt call, then you know she is not the one" NC my brother.

[metro23]

He has no reason to have my number at all, I have been NC hard core for 20 days now and intend to continue NC, it has been like a soft kick to the nads and feel like I have been set back a few steps.

[locolady]

No way - you havent been set back at all - your ex has. I asked my ex recently not to contact me anymore as i just couldnt get over him and it was too soon to be friends - i've so far stuck to that for 2 weeks but on previously ive threatened to never speak to him again - i mean it at the time but then get hysterically upset and call him. Having been in the position of your ex - the one calling - i recommend you ignore it. She will probably feel bad that she broke the NC - or if she really has something to say, she'll ring again! Keep your chin up, youre doing well.