when does the condom come off? lol

[icedoutflossyj]

ok so after having sex, after the guy just orgasms (also assuming that shes been satisfied and the lovemaking has been done for the night), whats usually the sequence of events that follows? Does the guy just take the condom off and go throw it out, leave it on (this would seem uncomfortable lol), stay inside of her until he is fully limp, and then go throw it out? just wondering what the etiquette is for post-sex behavior. lol thanks for the help!

[WildChild]

For safety reasons i.e. pregnancy, STDs it is best for the man to pull out once he has ejaculated. If he should wait until he has gone limp, the risk of the condom slipping off inside the woman becomes greater which would then leave the potential or possibility of semen leaking into the woman. In my experience, after sex the man normally just pulls out within a few seconds after ejaculating, takes the condom off and discards it. Hope that helps.

[icedoutflossyj]

Discards it as in actually getting up to put it in the trash? Or discards it as in throws it over his shoulder onto his roomates bed?

 

lol j/p thanks for the help

[RayKay]

ok so after having sex, after the guy just orgasms (also assuming that shes been satisfied and the lovemaking has been done for the night), whats usually the sequence of events that follows? Does the guy just take the condom off and go throw it out, leave it on (this would seem uncomfortable lol), stay inside of her until he is fully limp, and then go throw it out? just wondering what the etiquette is for post-sex behavior. lol thanks for the help!

 

Withdraw immediately. Waiting to go limp and soft usually results in leakage, condom slippage and a furious attempt to retrieve the condom before it gets lost.....and then a rush to the clinic the next morning.

 

Withdraw, remove condom, dispose of in trash and clean up, then go back to bed and cuddle

[newts]

Once he has ejaculated.

[ocrob]

It depends how you feel about your roommate.lol

[Day_Walker]

In order to insure that the condom doesnt break, once the man has ejaculated he should remove the condom. Now this is where the etiquette part comes in, its proper to throw the condom in the trash. I have heard some females say that they want more than that. According to them the appropriate thing to do with the condom tie it off, wrap it up in a tissue and throw it in the trash. Seems like a lot to do but that is what I have heard.

[BellaDonna]

I have heard some females say that they want more than that. According to them the appropriate thing to do with the condom tie it off, wrap it up in a tissue and throw it in the trash. Seems like a lot to do but that is what I have heard.

 

They probably say this because this is what women do with their pads (hopefully). Just like most men won't want to see a soiled maxi-pad out in the open -a used condom is not something you want sticking out in your garbage either. Especially if you expect company or others can see it. But to tie it off is a bit of overkill I think- but concealing it in a napkin should work fine....

 

BellaDonna

[ocrob]

I always take it off and wrap it with toilet paper and throw it away. It is even better, if you take it off before cuming and ejaculate on your partners body. That is always nice. But, you have to wrap the condom up and throw it away.

[Ash]

Others have commented regarding the condom issue and withdrawing. Next part of the etiquette from the way I see things is one of the following:

 

1. If she came too (wonderful, but doesn't always happen) then cuddles are the way to go.

 

2. If she didn't, and wants to, then help out manually, anywhere from just stroking her back while she touches herself all the way up to you taking care of everything . This can be tough, you'll be missing the appropriate chemicals (after you've come) to keep you excited so your mind will have to carry you.

 

3. If she didn't, and is content anyway (often happens) then the cuddles are the way to go again.

 

Personally, I prefer to have her come before me, usually done before we start intercourse as most women can have intercourse after they come and still enjoy it (or perhaps even more depending on how their sensitivity changes). That way, she gets there, you get there, and the after play is simple - cuddling.

[SpyderE]

When i have the forethought I try to have something to wrap the condom in nearby, then I can just slip it off wrap it up and toss it next to the bed. Then after awhile pick it up and toss it. This makes it an easier transition, not so much wham bam thanks for the ride kinda thing...

 

Without something to wrap it up in you will have to sneak out of bed to toss it. Then casually slip back in and snuggle up.

 

As for pulling out after... read the directions on the box of condoms, it will tell you exactly how to do it, as well as have some interesting cartoon depictions... Once the guy finishes, immediately pull out and dispose of condom.

[ShySoul]

Take it off immediately, tie it, and throw it away seems to be the plan.

 

As for what to do intimately, Ash is right on.

 

And now for some humor:

 

"What do I do now?"

 

"Old style? You roll over and go to sleep. New style, you go out for pizza and I never see you again."

 

Susan Ivanova, "Babylon 5"