Picking up hints

[vananoia]

I'm friends with someone, but have deeper feelings for them. I think they have deeper feelings for me too, but I'm not sure. He has a girlfriend but we were friends before she came along, and everyone who knows us thought we were heading that way. He didn't initially want this girl, she persisted and he eventually caved, but I still get the feeling that he doesn't actually want to be with her - he wants to be with me, but again, I'm not sure.

How can I tell if he loves me, what are the certain things that he might say or do? And how can I let him know that I love him, without actually saying the words? I don't want to wreck the friendship if my instincts are wrong.

[shyanne]

you guys were friends before she came along so i think if he wanted you then he wouldn't be with her now. he would be with you...........

[stolenshadow]

I'm sorry but it doesn't look like he is that interested. He's with this other girl, we can guess many reasons for it but the fact is he is dating her.

You don't need a guy with a weak character either, who can't make his own decisions and starts relationships because he is told to.