do you think there's a chance?

[heythere]

My friend directed me to this site...maybe she's tired of listening to me!

Anyways, I recently got out of a long term relationship. I moved on, met someone else. Since I was on the rebound I pushed for a relationship...it wasn't what he wanted, and I don't think I really wanted it then either...just looking for comfort. Anyways, I was out of town for almost two months, and before I left, when we broke up, he said he'd like to hang out with me when I get back. Well, he emailed me the other day to see if I was back. What does he want? (it's not sex cuz he never got it from me before)

[Shadows Light]

Well.. if he never got sex from you before. Maybe he likes you. Likes spending time with you. Maybe he wants/needs a good friend too.

 

Why don't you just ask him????

[Msnak]

Welcome!

 

Yes, asking the big questions saves questions, headaches, worry and stress.

 

If he doesn't have an answer, recognize that he might be confused about how he feels for you. Give it time, if you want to try it again.

 

When times passes, things can change. Sometimes for the better, sometimes not. Don't expect anything, but do be open.

[newts]

Maybe he enjoys your company or his feeling may have changed. The only thing you can do is ask him - maybe he was worried he was going to be your rebound?