musicguy Posted January 16, 2006 Share Posted January 16, 2006 Why don't girls I like..like me? I think i'm meant to be alone. I get hurt by girls all the time it seems like it, offline and online. I just want to feel loved, to feel special to someone, to be held and kissed. I can't take it anymore. I cry in my heart everyday Link to comment
LostInMyThoughts Posted January 16, 2006 Share Posted January 16, 2006 Hey bro, I'm sorry you're feeling down right now. This stuff is hard. All I can say is, if I can find a girl, everyone can (just bypass the part where we got married then divorced). How is it that girls hurt you? Link to comment
musicguy Posted January 16, 2006 Author Share Posted January 16, 2006 they tell me that I'm too good enough for them or I'm too nice or i find girls who just broke up with their bf's or are involved with someone already Link to comment
LostInMyThoughts Posted January 16, 2006 Share Posted January 16, 2006 Sorry man, that sucks, but you can't get yourself down about these things. Perhaps you are too good for them; or that you are too nice. As for girls on the rebound or with signifigant others, that's just bad timing. Why do these things hurt you? This might be a bad analogy, but when I go out clothes shopping, I might find a few pairs of jeans I like. I try them on, and 99% of the time I dont like how they look. It sucks, but its hit or miss. If I gave up, I'd end up wearing sweatpants all the time; and I'd never get chicks that way. With girls, specifically them being fresh out of a relationship/in one currently, its the same. It sucks, but its hit or miss. Link to comment
musicguy Posted January 16, 2006 Author Share Posted January 16, 2006 because when i talk to a girl i'm attracted to I put my heart into it and then i get it smashed..but I'm gonna be who i am though Link to comment
LostInMyThoughts Posted January 16, 2006 Share Posted January 16, 2006 That doesn't sound like a good idea, if I understand you correctly. Do you think you might be coming on too strongly? What do you mean put your heart into it? Link to comment
musicguy Posted January 16, 2006 Author Share Posted January 16, 2006 i don't come on too strong at all. I'm just being myself..my nice self Link to comment
ladyluv Posted January 16, 2006 Share Posted January 16, 2006 All I can say is just be yourself around the girls. Have confident and don't expect much. Your time will come my friend. cheers, t|Na Link to comment
musicguy Posted January 16, 2006 Author Share Posted January 16, 2006 That's the thing. I am being myself around girls Link to comment
Lacuna Posted January 17, 2006 Share Posted January 17, 2006 they tell me that I'm too good enough for them or I'm too nice or i find girls who just broke up with their bf's or are involved with someone already You sound needy. You sound like my older brother - he messes up relationships because he tries to be Mr Super-nice man with a flowing green cape... People feel pressured by needy people and most can't deal with it. If you're needy you respond to things poorly and put out a vibe that keeps people away. People like to spend time with people who have lives they want to share, people who do things and have interests - who wants to spend time with someone who sits in a dark room all day dwelling on how sad they are? Somewhere on this forum someone posted a 'guide' for how to interact with girls - it isn't too bad and one of the points he discusses is the 'nice' guy problem. I'd recommend getting away from the 'I NEED someone' syndrome and instead focus on doing things you enjoy - or at least trying different things. The person most likely to be attractive to the opposite sex is the person who most enjoys living their lives... Link to comment
musicguy Posted January 17, 2006 Author Share Posted January 17, 2006 I am doing that..I work 6 days a week and I'm at a career that I love. I've accomplished a lot of the goals that I set out for myself since I was 17 and I've done that already...finding love is one my last goals to accomplish Link to comment
skyblue1 Posted January 17, 2006 Share Posted January 17, 2006 Poor darling! I know what your going through sweetie. All the guys i like don't like me. I'm feeling lonely too and feeling hurt. You need to try and go out and fun and maybe go to a singles event. I might do that. Good luck!!! xxxxxx Link to comment
The_Loner_Warrior Posted January 26, 2006 Share Posted January 26, 2006 I know what that's like seeing poeple having someone to be there for them.Im going through the same thing right but,don't worry im sure youll find someone. Link to comment
yeawutever Posted January 26, 2006 Share Posted January 26, 2006 It's ok, ur not the only one here single. But being single has its advantages. Link to comment
ShySoul Posted February 1, 2006 Share Posted February 1, 2006 musicguy, Just thought I'd write a quick post to see how you are and to say that as down as you were, you should never give up. Things turned around when you least expected it too. Take care buddy. Link to comment
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