is that cheating or not

[litlgeen]

ok if this isnt cheating i dont know what is ok so i know 2 peoplethat go out and on of them has a friend that they love alott but still loves the person there dating alott so this person and their friend have been making out and having sex but they still say its not cheatingand so does the guy shes dating so is it cheating or not

[RIPDIME]

wow this is a toughie.

 

Of course its cheating! Even if they were making out it would be cheating but then they had sex, which seals the deal.

 

Hope that helped.

 

Ps: Emo isnt cool

[LostInMyThoughts]

If the two people who are dating agree that having sex and making out with other people is okay and not cheating, then its not cheating.

 

Relationships don't all conform to one model.

 

Some relationships are "open" where both partners can go frollick with other people if they want.

 

If they are okay with it, then its okay.

[Broken_Doll_ParTs]

If the two people who are dating agree that having sex and making out with other people is okay and not cheating, then its not cheating.

I agree with lostinmythoughtS.

 

Allot of people have open relationships, It just depends on the dynamics of the relationship and the people in it.

[darkblue]

If the partner of the accused 'cheater' says that it is OK - then it is OK.

Some people have open relationships, and although I don't agree with them - it can work for some.

[Cloud802]

I always thought that if both parties in a relationship know that they love each other and say it's ok to mess around, then it's ok. It just depends on how the two people in the relationship think about it, not what other people outside of it think.