Men problems! .....Met a new guy =D

[Broken_Doll_ParTs]

Hey everyone,

I met the most awesome guy (I think) he looks pretty cool, we met through friends outside our usual nightclub, this was the first time ive ever met these guys LOL.

 

 

I saw him before I got introduced to him, and I saw him staring at me too, after we got introduced we started dancing together. We talked, danced and flirted. He tried to kiss me many times BUT I was embrassed so I rejected his trys. We took a walk and he asked me this what i would do if he kissed me, i didnt sayanything, i just smiled, he kissed me.

 

He did dance with my firend, only becasue she pushed herself on him and everytime he saw a friend of his, he would introduce them to me, he would hold my hand when sitting, dancing and walking, he made me lead the way when walking.... does this mean anything?

 

When my friend and i were driving home, she asked if i kissed him, when i said yes, she was like 'ohhh whyyyyyyy?' I asked her if there was anything wrong and she said no. I told my other friend which is the guys good mate that i thought he was hot and she was like go for him and 'i'l set yous up' and she added that he was really nice... BUT my other friend said i shouldnt have and he isnt good. By the way, all these girls have bfs or like someone.

 

After we kissed, he gave me his number, he siad he didnt want mine...he said 'think about it, then message or call me'....I REALLY WANT TO, but I dont know if i should. Plus if I do send him a sms, how long should I wait....like how many days?

[darkblue]

Hey BDP,

That's great.

 

I think, if you like him - you should go for it. Call him whenever you want, and arrange sometime you two can go out.

I would suggest somewhere quiet, where you can get to know each other.

 

 

BUT my other friend said i shouldnt have and he isnt good.

Why doesn't your friend like him?

 

he made me lead the way when walking.... does this mean anything?

It means he is chivalrous.

[Caldus]

Big mistake to find a boyfriend/girlfriend at a night club. Sorry just my opinion.

[darkblue]

Big mistake to find a boyfriend/girlfriend at a night club. Sorry just my opinion.

 

we met through friends outside our usual nightclub

 

If that makes any difference...

[Caldus]

Ah didn't catch that. I thought she meant at another night club somewhere.

[annie24]

Big mistake to find a boyfriend/girlfriend at a night club. Sorry just my opinion.

 

ah, you know, nice people hang out at clubs all the time. My friend met her fiance at a night club!!! Never know where you're going to find true love....

[RayKay]

Big mistake to find a boyfriend/girlfriend at a night club. Sorry just my opinion.

 

You know, there are many respectable, honest people whom one can meet at a nightclub - they are not always there just to "pick up". Regular people like to go out and have fun with friends too

 

Sure they are often classified as "meat markets", but not everyone whom goes is looking for "fresh meat"!

[darkblue]

Sure they are often classified as "meat markets", but not everyone whom goes is looking for "fresh meat"!

I'm sure you don't mean that there may be people looking for 'old meat'?!

 

I agree, I don't think that everyone that goes to clubs are prodominantly out to find someone.

Some people just go for fun or because friends go, etc.

[RayKay]

I'm sure you don't mean that there may be people looking for 'old meat'?!

 

 

You never know......they have Yummy Mummy nights at one of the clubs here, for well, moms to get out....but I have yet to see a Dandy Granny night though.....

[Broken_Doll_ParTs]

LOL, clubs are good places to meet people, especailly if you go in a big group of poeple that you know and they bring people they know....Thats what happened with me!

 

It was the BEST!

 

 

 

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BUT my other friend said i shouldnt have and he isnt good.

 

Why doesn't your friend like him?

Im not sure, Im going to ask her today when I go over her house, she said he drinks heaps, but he didnt drink when he was with me, and she said that he is a guy that is like on and off....Like for example, one day he will talk to her and the next he would just smile at her... but she said he isnt like that with everyone.

 

Im going to give him a message today, when I go to my friends house, I feel kinda weird because she introduced me to him. Plus I dont want everyone to see me as a skank! ....Im pretty much resevered and really shy, but with him, I was soooo comfortable, and I know he was too becasue he said it LOL.

[darkblue]

If he does end up sending you mixed signals, and you don't like it - get out.

 

Good luck.

[Broken_Doll_ParTs]

Thanks! =D

[Caldus]

Depends on what kind of people you want to meet I guess...

[lost_status]

caldus, going to a club doesnt mean she likes one type of guy, there are so many different types of people who go clubbing, not all are sleazy. For example right, say you havnt gone clubbing before coz you dont like it, but a good friend decides to have a birthday party at a club, you go and meet someone.

You honeslty cant say that, its like giving them labels. I dont want to be rude or anything, Its just an opinion and a different point of view

[Caldus]

I guess it's just the clubs in my town then. And believe me, I've been to clubs many times in the past and don't really plan on going to anymore in the future.

 

Carry on.