havealittlefaithinme6 Posted January 11, 2006 Share Posted January 11, 2006 Basically this guy and I are really into each other. He asked me out, of course i said yes, and we've been out twice. It's just, I don't know how to 'act' like a girlfriend. Like how to talk sweet to him or talk to him like my boyfriend...you know? Because I don't want to talk to him like I would any other friend. He's a year older, and has had a few girlfriends, he's made up this nickname for me and he calls me "baby" and everything, I want to be that way too, but I don't know how. Help! Link to comment
registered Posted January 11, 2006 Share Posted January 11, 2006 Don't put any pressure on yourself... just be yourself. You could call him "dear" sometimes, I think it's nice I think talking to him like a friend is fine... you will be enjoying each other and that's all that matters. Don't act a certain way, just be yourself... do whatever feels right. There is no pressure, just relax and enjoy it. 1 Link to comment
Arrowsmith Posted January 11, 2006 Share Posted January 11, 2006 I couldn't have said it better than Registered did. Being yourself (i.e. being sincere) is way more important than 'acting like a girlfriend'. You've only been out twice. Over time a nickname might evolve out of an experience that you have together -- there's no need to rush it. What animal does he most identify with? My friend Jaclyn calls me "Raccoon", which I like. Link to comment
NoComply Posted January 11, 2006 Share Posted January 11, 2006 haha, dont act differently is my best advice. he likes you for who you are now, why change who you are now your going out with them??? ^_^ Link to comment
the yang to the worlds yin Posted January 11, 2006 Share Posted January 11, 2006 he's dating you because he liked who you were in the first place, so just be yourself. relationships aren't about changing who you are to make someone else happier with you, their about growing as a person as the other watches and grows as well. so don't fret, your fine just the way you are Link to comment
Amano Ginji Posted January 13, 2006 Share Posted January 13, 2006 Dont stress ur self for something like this.It's really unimportant to use words like "baby" and "honey" if u dont want to. If u can,u should be as sweet as u want to be to him.If u like something he says or when he compliments u,Let him no that u appreciate it!. A nickname is not at all important.U could text him,e-mail him to let him no ur thinking of him.But dont ever make it look like ur needy or clingy.That's something u shoudlnt forget! Being a girlfriend is just like being a really close friend.With a few alterations. Hope this hellped! Link to comment
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