survey for the ladies

[cingularity83]

Just out of simple curiosity...which one of these options would you like more if a guy said it to you...and just say your reason why...

 

A. you are pretty

B. you are cute

C. you are beautiful

D. you are hot

 

and the guy isn't your boyfriend or husband.....

[lost_status]

i would have to pick c!!

[Mun]

B. because then, I'm guessing, I've also charmed him

[pineapple_juice]

Compliment girls on thier intelligence, rather than on thier looks...

[Blue Skittles]

I'd have 2 pick C - reason being if a guy said to me A or D, I would know he was talking only about looks, and that is a turnoff - i would feel like he want me for something else other than a relationship. If a guy said to me D, I would feel like its more about personality and the way I act, but beautiful, is like, an all round beautiful person, and that makes me feel good.

 

Although, if its like a first date or a guy i just met, I wouldn't liek C - because that is like... too much, i would probably get scared off. If its a guy i just met i would prefer B

[Gunther]

Best I can count it, so far we got:

 

a-0

b-2

c-2

d-0

neither-1

 

assuming blue skittles is a B

[BellaDonna]

B. you are cute

 

I would choose B- since there's an aspect of personality that goes into cuteness, so it's not just physical.

 

Why I wouldn't choose the others:

 

A. you are pretty- for some reason the word "pretty" lacks emotion. I use it to describe curtains and things like that- but not people. It almost sounds forced and insincere too- I don't know why.

 

C. you are beautiful- it's just so typical...

 

D. you are hot- it has a feel of immaturity to it. If "hot" was replaced with "sexy" it would be more appealing.

 

Just my opinion.....

 

BellaDonna

[cingularity83]

its nice to see how each word means something different for all the lovely ladies here...anymore girls want to give their input...

[pip]

I would use the words "beautiful" or "pretty". These are not words that guys would say to just any girl - it shows you really mean it. And say something like, "I think you are quite pretty" or "really pretty" or "very beautiful".

 

"Hot" is too common and sounds like something any guy in a bar might say about any woman they want to pick up. "Cute" isn't so bad but is also a bit too common.