Abou taking dance lessons but might run into EX more often

[here2understand2]

Hey,

thanks for reading, so here's the story. I was dating a girl about 2.5 years ago and we dated for about 6 months before ending it..It was very very bitter when it ended and I had a hard time moving on for the next year and half or so, because during those 6 months I'd developed feelings for her. Even though I dated 3 girls after that, i still had feelings and its only been recently (read last 4-5 months) that I've finally managed to push my ex out of my mind.

 

Now, this semester I plan to take dance lessons, I started taking dance lessons with my ex about 2.5 years ago but quit after our breakup just because dancing was a passion for her and I didnt want to take that away from her. But now I want to learn again but this means that I might end up running into her more often and she will do her bit to make my stay there uncomfy plus I am worried that the feelings that I managed to stifle after a long and hard battle might resurface. I dont know for sure how strong I am, and this is the only place in the city where I can learn dancing.

 

Any suggestions/comments about how to go about this? thanks!

[nikkers04]

You can always start taking the classes if you see her...then fine...don't go out of your way to talk to her if she comes and talks to you make it short.

[here2understand2]

thanks for the reply nikkers04, hmm. I know we both can be mature about it but she more than often is not coz she knows that I liked her immensly but instead of being considerate (i was the nicest I've ever been to anybody when I was with her) she kinda rubs it in my face not takin into account that I gave up dancing just so that she could do it, I wouldnt be talking to her thats for sure. But has anyone out there run into problems like this before?

[nikkers04]

Best of luck to you!