Going out

[nikkers04]

So today is almost the end of day 9 of no contact. I still love him with all my heart but a friend just called and wants me to meet a cute boy. I think I'm going to go. I dont' want a relationship I want to wait and see if anything is going to happen with the ex But I do need to get out.

 

Do you guys agree?

 

I need to make some new friends so I have other people to hang out with besides the ex...if I ever get to hang with him again.

[shelbymustang_fan]

Are you sure you still love your ex? It seems like most people I know need a lot more than 9 days before they are ready to go out with someone new. It takes many people several months before they are ready to "date" again. Just slow down and make sure this is what you want to do. And If you are considering doing this out of revenge, please don't. Nobody wins at the revenge game.

 

If you need to get out, just make it a girls nite out.

[nikkers04]

Yes I love my ex. And will for a long time. I am going out...Not to kiss this guy...but to make some new friends...I only have 3 friends here...I moved for the ex. One of those friends being the ex. I just need to go out and have fun....nothing serious just some fun

[shelbymustang_fan]

Ok, I guess there is nothing wrong with making new friends, but I would at least make sure that you stick to the part about doing nothing serious. Also, it may be a good idea make darn sure you don't "run" into your ex in puplic. That would be awkward.

[DN]

Have fun but don't mislead a guy into thinking you're available if you are not.

[nikkers04]

trust me...its a big town...and I haven't ran into him yet and we work 6 blocks apart from each other. I hope its fun....other wise i'll be depressed i even thought about going

[shelbymustang_fan]

Have fun but don't mislead a guy into thinking you're available if you are not.

 

This is true. Someone did that to me once, and it drove me nuts for quite a while. But I guess it makes me smarter. I have learned to not "pursue" women fresh out of a relationship because of this.

[nikkers04]

trust me I wont do anything with him...I dont want him to hurt the way I do and I dont want to lead him on and make me feel bad and guilty

[acuraman]

I think you should go out and meet new people because its good to make new friends.

[honeyspur]

Well, I'm sure you know what I think.

I'm so excited for you! I know you are going out with good intentions - because of that, this should be a nice change of pace.