Confused

[seekinghappYness]

Ok I don't understand this really. My BF hasn't called me in 5 days, not even to say Hi. I didn't want to be the one to call him this time b/c I always am but I was worried about him so I just tried to call him and completely humilated myself. It turns out he was at some important meeting at the time and really got upset with me that I called him. This isn't the first time he has been uninterested in talking to me. I told him to just call me back later or something but I don't think I want to talk to him now. I didn't know he was at a meeting so he didn't have to be so rude to me. In the past our relationship had been great. He used to tell me that he loved me and everything. Now there is like no communication at all and I'm really feeling bad from it. When he calls back should I even answer? what do I do?

[karen95]

i think you should back off a bit. i dont think you should call him so much. go out with your friends etc and pretend you are having a great time when you are not with him. you could go out tonight and stay out late and then when you come in you could just text him a message to say goodnight. tell him your were out and had a fantastic time. dont let him think that you are sitting at home waiting for his calls. i think he needs to feel fear that you are having a life of your own and you might move on. by the sounds of things he knows that you are sitting waiting for him, and he doesnt have to call you as you will call him and then when you do he is rude to you. that is really not a nice way to treat your girlfriend!!!!!!

[Jessica45]

I agree, i think you should give him his space and show him that you don't deserve to be treated like that. You should stop worrying, i know its hard, but he can take care of himself. Go to a movie, spend time with friends, find something productive to do. But, you should pick up when he calls, you need to respond to him and show him how you want to be treated.

[Bethany]

I know this is an old classic but buy the book.. Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. I see you both in that book, and as soon as you read it so will you and then you will see what's really been happening and how to fix it.

[TheRock]

I am not sure what is going on with him, but you should definitely not call him again. he will call if he is interested and you can respond accordingly. If he does not call, then it is a little tough to feel rejected, but at least you will have kept some power in your court. Also, if you don't call...it could make him more intrigued.

Goodluck.