LittleBigGurl01 Posted January 4, 2006 Posted January 4, 2006 Well I have a problem with getting bored of people really EASILY like.. expecially with someone who likes me,,like I went out with this guy and after 3 days I got bored of him and dumped him. After that we were just friends and my explaination for dumping him was simply "got bored too quick". Now he's still talking to me and trying to carry on with a good friendship but , I feel theres nothing to say to him .. i dont know what we could talk about && he has this cockyness about him that I HATE and that also contributes to having nothing to talk about with him. Anyways, so now we were having an online conversation and he said "why aren't you talking, usually its the other way around" .. and i replied with "well i think talking to you is pointless so I have nothing to say" i guess then he felt offended and said "BYE".. i said "LATERRR" .. lol I know this wasn't very polite about me but I just had to tell him!! Why am i getting bored so fast?!?!?! .. this isnt the first time && have a feeling it wont be the last ,, is there anyone who sometimes feels like this aswell ,, and how do i help this problem i have???
Dako Posted January 4, 2006 Posted January 4, 2006 (yawn) Uh huh I know what you mean. Maybe you just find yourself more interesting. Nothing wrong with that. You just need to hang out with people that interest you. Find someone who fascinates you.
DN Posted January 4, 2006 Posted January 4, 2006 I agree with Dako - except I think you could do some heavy work on your tact and find a way to be a lot less rude to someone who has done nothing other than be attracted to you. That sort of behaviour comes back to bite you very often.
Lady Bugg Posted January 4, 2006 Posted January 4, 2006 Your attitude is appalling. I m surprised you have friends to be 'bored" with...
LiquidCherry Posted January 4, 2006 Posted January 4, 2006 I don't really think that it's a "problem" that you get bored easily, you just haven't found someone you want to be with yet. Nothing wrong with that and it's never a problem knowing what you want. I do think that telling someone that you think they are boring is a little mean though, I know it would hurt my feelings and being rejected hurts enough as it is. Perhaps just telling someone that you simply aren't clicking would be enough, especially in the early stages of a relationship. btw, "well I think talking to you is pointless so I have nothing to say" is COCKY
LittleBigGurl01 Posted January 5, 2006 Author Posted January 5, 2006 Your attitude is appalling. I m surprised you have friends to be 'bored" with... you really dont KNOW me and so you being "surprised" by me actually having friends .. simply to respond to that i'd have 2 say...i dont care ANYWAYS, for clarification since majority thinks i was being harsh i'll repeat what i said in my post.. "I KNOW THAT WASN'T POLITE OF ME..." yes i could have responded in a nicer way but in the way the night was going it was what came to mind when he asked me why I wasn't talking..&& I dont just go around popping off like that to people who are "attracted to me" it's more then attraction with him he does stuff that upsets me and I was fed up that night so .. it came out.
fantasia2004 Posted January 5, 2006 Posted January 5, 2006 Your attitude is appalling. I m surprised you have friends to be 'bored" with... "yawn" to you too lady bugg! I wonder what you really do for fun to avoid being boring like on this site and no this is not a pot shot against you. Because I have been called boring and dull many times.
fantasia2004 Posted January 5, 2006 Posted January 5, 2006 you really dont KNOW me and so you being "surprised" by me actually having friends .. simply to respond to that i'd have 2 say...i dont care ANYWAYS, for clarification since majority thinks i was being harsh i'll repeat what i said in my post.. "I KNOW THAT WASN'T POLITE OF ME..." yes i could have responded in a nicer way but in the way the night was going it was what came to mind when he asked me why I wasn't talking..&& I dont just go around popping off like that to people who are "attracted to me" it's more then attraction with him he does stuff that upsets me and I was fed up that night so .. it came out. dont' take it personal just a matter of opinions here...
Dako Posted January 5, 2006 Posted January 5, 2006 She did admit her expression of boredom was impolite. I believe she was being construcively self-critical about that. Sorry about the (yawn) but it seemed mildly funny at the time.
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