I understand.....

[pineapple_juice]

I understand teenage girls who fall in love with older guys...all they want is someone mature, someone who takes thier feelins and aspirations seriously, someone who does not view love as just a game. For me, I am 22, but very mature for my age. I, like many teenage girls, am fed up with my immature friends. They are so annoying because they have no direction in thier life, and they don't value it. So I understand how many teenage girls feel, because I feel the same way.

[Arrowsmith]

I'm glad to hear you feel that way, but you should realize that not all of us older guys are as mature as we seem.

[registered]

well yeah I don't think maturity and age are corellated in any way... some guys just don't "mature" at all... I don't think it's a problem, it's just how they choose to be.

 

And likewise there are a lot of mature young guys, you just have to look for them.

 

It does suck that no one you've met so far seems to have the same attitudes in life as you but believe me, there are people out there who you would like.

It's just a matter of going out to meet them.

 

I think that usually people of similar maturity levels and of similar mentality tend to get along with each other and for this reason are usually found together. So maybe you just need to try some new things in different areas of interests in order to find someone more mature.

 

Also, you always have older guys if you want. But like-minded young guys do exist!

[AntiLove_SuperStar]

hehe, well.. I'm 17 and my boyfriend is 21, but I wouldnt say he is *mature*, particularly. I'm not that mature myself so I wasnt really looking for the same quality in him.

Sure, he's very intelligent and looks out for me...but being out of your teens is no guarantee you'll suddenly get direction or whatever.

[Mysterious Gurl]

wow! I'm sooooo glad to have read this post! I didn't think I was ever going to find anyone who agrees and shares the exact feelings as me on this topic!

 

I'm 16 going to be 17 in March and I have always fallen for guys older than me. The thing that really gets on my nerves is, when somone says "why don't you find a nice boy your own age?" To be honest all the boys at college are well immature.

 

Thanks for posting that!

 

Miya