girls with lots of guy friends-vice versa

[joe45]

any of u guys met or date girls who had or has a lotttt of friends who are guys or let's say majority of em are guys. also these guys are good looking too-trendy clohtes, good jobs, educated.... etc. what do u think of this-and she tells u shes single too.

also for guys having lot of friends who are girls -what do u as the girl who is dating the guy think of this-ok , what not. lets say they are really close too like good close friends-always hang out and this and that-joke around.

what are these ppl called and why are they liked that-i usually find guys sticking with guys and girls and girls- guys who have lotf of friends who are girls can be called gay, and girls with lots of guy friends are called attention * * * * * * or tom boys.

i for one find it hard to make friends who are girls-either dating em or jsut forget about it-i mean how can guy and girl just be friends-just too much problems and hormones. i mean what do u talk to em about-yea cars, girls, boobs, yea lol nothing. and most girls i now like to hang with girls too and guys with guys.

[Derge]

"these guys are good looking too-trendy clohtes, good jobs, educated.... etc" These could be steryotypical homosexual people who also "like to be friends with girls because they have more in common with them". or they could just be friends. This would explain your point about the hormones evertime I have been close friends with a girl even if there not attractive there is something there if there average to good looking im trying to get ontop of them lol

[ShySoul]

Um, little confused by what you are asking.

 

I think part of it was asking about guys who seem to have lots of girls as friends. These guys aren't gay, they are simple guys who tend to get along better with girls. I'm one of them myself. I've found that for some reason I naturally relate more to girls. I find girls to be overall more mature, intelligent, and more fun to be around. We talk about anything that we have in common - musical tastes, hobbies, books we've read, ideas and thoughts on various things.

 

How old are you? That may explain why you feel guys and girls can't just be friends. Maybe you have a lot of hormones going through you which makes it difficult. But guys talk about more then girls and cars. They talk about all kinds of things that interest them. The same can be done with girls. And you know, some girls like cars to. Some guys have no interest in cars (like me). You're generalizing about what boys and girls are like. Try not to do that and look at the individual instead.

[Derge]

yeah, I was take the " " using the preconcieved ideas to get a response I have lots of friends who are girls but only one who is in my circle of best friends. Although I dont think its healthy to just be friends with one sex. even if its the same as your own I think you need to develop an idea of both although generally I have found I can talk to girls about rugby,cars,moterbikes and loads of "man" stuff although. Maybe becaue these guys know about fasion there the sort she wants as her friend not boy friend.

[registered]

Yeah joe45 there's not much to read into any of this... people are just friends with whoever they get along with.

 

In my experience girls with lots of guy friends are typically more social and outgoing than other girls.

Most people in school simply have friends (of any sex) who have the same interests or who are in the same circumstances. This is because it sucks to be alone in school and so we stick to whoever we have.

 

In my experience most guys typically have more close female friends than male friends, and most girls typically have more close female friends than male friends.

 

And they all talk about whatever lol, it doesn't matter. Just whatever they enjoy (and yes many girls love talking about cars, boobs, and video games lol...and girls love talking about girls with anyone...).

 

People with a good fashion sense aren't necessarily gay either lol, most guys with style aren't gay and gay guys don't generally have exceptional fashion sense, I think this is just a stereotype TV has created.

[ShySoul]

In my experience most guys typically have more close female friends than male friends, and most girls typically have more close female friends than male friends.

 

So basically, females form closer relationships and friendships with people, regardless of gender? Goes with the idea that females are more emotional and prefer intimate and close relationships with others, while guys think they have to be distant and not open up to others. Interesting.

[registered]

So basically, females form closer relationships and friendships with people, regardless of gender? Goes with the idea that females are more emotional and prefer intimate and close relationships with others, while guys think they have to be distant and not open up to others. Interesting.

Yeah that is an interesting observation... it makes a lot of sense.

[Striker17]

Well, I am in a group of six close friends, one of them being a girl. We hang out almost daily, for New Year's it was just us. She has a boyfriend who she likes a lot, but we're all still great friends because we live within a really short radius of eachother, and we all have similar interests. She isn't gay, she isn't doing anything that she shouldn't be with one of use, we just live close to eachother, and it's convenient. On New Year's, we all slept in her house, and she decided to sleep on the couch with us rather than her bed because it is more fun that way. It really means nothing, so don't fret about it.