Wedding

[Maverick32x]

Hey, so im 19, almost 20 going to my friend / ex-boss's wedding in about 1 hour!! and im pretty excited, i have a date, but its actually my CURRENT boss (haha keep it in the work place i guess) and shes 24, and we are just going as friends since we both know the people getting married....

I am pretty excited, and want to meet some people... girls... lol, and was wondering if anyone has any advice?

i probably WILL be drinking, and i usually dont have trouble coming up to girls at school and stuff, but im WAY outta my comfort zone since ive only gone to like one wedding when i was really little ... so any advice would be awesome

[PocoDiablo]

Advice:

 

1. If you see someone who you want to talk to, walk up to her within 3 seconds and say hello.

2. Avoid talking about yourself too much. Instead, ask her questions and then get her to elaborate on the details of her answers. Listen to what she says and see if you have anything in common.

3. If you talk to a woman for more than 5-10 minutes and really like her, tell her that you'd like to get to know her better and ask for her phone number. After you get it, thank her and walk away.

4. If you talk to someone for more than 30 seconds to a minute and DON'T get a good vibe, politely excuse yourself and go talk to someone else.

5. Start with the best looking woman you can and say hello.

6. Check for wedding rings on any woman's left hand - don't hit on anyone taken.

7. Flirt. Joke.

8. Avoid serious topics or depressing topics, or topics that could lead to a debate. This includes cars, computers, sex, politics, religion, blood and guts, ex boyfriends or girlfriends, work, or ANYTHING depressing. If anything even remotely sad is brought up, change the topic as soon as possible.

9. Treat everyone like you know them but have not seen them for a year. Ask them questions "To catch up" and get to know them better. Relax, they are only human, and will appreciate someone taking an interest in them.

10. If anyone is even the slightest bit rude to you, they're morons. Walk away without a goodbye.

 

Finally, do NOT get drunk!

 

And most of all ... relax, enjoy yourself!

[ShySoul]

Weddings are like any other event with a few exceptions: there are those two people saying I do, you dress up more, and there is cake.

 

It is nothing different then talking to people regularly. If you don't have a problem talking to people otherwise, there is no reason to get nervous about this. Just relax, stay calm, and have a good time.

 

PS. Don't seem like you are trying to meet girls or "work the floor." Just go with the natural flow of things.

[darkblue]

9. Treat everyone like you know them but have not seen them for a year. Ask them questions "To catch up" and get to know them better. Relax, they are only human, and will appreciate someone taking an interest in them.

10. If anyone is even the slightest bit rude to you, they're morons. Walk away without a goodbye.

 

I like those two.