Will he contact me???

[coolbloke1978]

OK check out this thread for the bigger picture:

 

Right so I said Friday was good for me and he said he'd let me know. It seems like hes still playing his games as i haven't heard anything! Should I chase now or leave it till the new year? Please let me know people! Now it is just about getting my stuff back I don't even think I can ever feel the same way about him if he continues like this.

[Pikey1972]

I'd say wait till the New Year - give it a few more days and above all don't appear clingy and overly eager. Try to play it cool - I know it's difficult, but try to remain aloof. Good luck!

[coolbloke1978]

Okay Pikey thanks. I'll take your advice.

[coolbloke1978]

Well he didnt contact me but I was sent a happy new year message prior to the new year. I replied back and said you too. Now is it best I leave it till the end of the week before I ask about getting stuff back?

[Pikey1972]

Yes, I'd say wait a little longer, maybe another week or so - but above all make sure he doesn't play games with you! STAY COOL AND STAND UP FOR YOURSELF!

 

Others may have a different opinion, but that's my two pennies worth...

[coolbloke1978]

okay i have another update. we have been in touch via text message yesterday - we are meeting on sunday evening outside a bar to exchange stuff. all this was arranged via text. then last nite he send me another text saying are you still interested in selling your car i am meeting adrian later so if you are let me know the details. i gave them to him he said ok ill let u know what the offer is.

 

where the hell did this come from? and also on sunday if we meet outside a bar, and the intention is to just exchange stuff how do i say oh lets have a quick drink without appearing pushy or needy? what if he just heres ure stuff and then says ok see you later. how do i play it. im so confused! help!

[bebestix]

try the tips here link removed He may or may not be playing with you, but do stay cool!