Jump to content

Have I lost interest, or am I just more comfortable around her. Please reply

Recommended Posts

This is a little long, but a little history. I have been best friends with Snow (that's her nickname) for almost 6 years. But I am so confused. Last October I started to have a crush on her and it soon turned into love around the beginning of summer. She knows I like her (she doesn't know I love her). Earlier this school year I told her that I wanted to talk to her about how we used to always talk and how we rarely ever do now.


Ever since we talked about how we used to talk and how we don't talk anymore, we've been talking a lot more. But now I am confused. I don't know if I am more comfortable around her now or if I have just plain lost interest. Can someone please help me out with this? ](*,)

Link to comment
Why don't you try spending more time with her and see what kind of feelings you have for her.

If you don't feel the same - it won't seem weird because you are friends.


Well, I have been confused about this for a couple months now. Are there any questions I could ask myself to figure this out?

Link to comment
Well, feelings of that nature vary from person to person.

The only thing you need to ask yourself is, when you see her:

Are you attracted to her?


Okay. I still don't know whether I am still attracted to her or not. We've been around each other a lot these past couple of days and I still can't tell. It's like I'm in the middle of being attraced to her and not attracted to her.

Link to comment
Hmm. Could you picture yourself dating her? Kissing her, etc?




She just told me about an hour ago that she is in a relationship right now though. But, oddly enough, I am completely fine about it. I mean, I don't feel bad that I never made a move or feel any heartache or anything what so ever. Why is it that I feel like this?

Link to comment

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now
  • Create New...