Sam _ Posted December 28, 2005 Share Posted December 28, 2005 This is a little long, but a little history. I have been best friends with Snow (that's her nickname) for almost 6 years. But I am so confused. Last October I started to have a crush on her and it soon turned into love around the beginning of summer. She knows I like her (she doesn't know I love her). Earlier this school year I told her that I wanted to talk to her about how we used to always talk and how we rarely ever do now. Ever since we talked about how we used to talk and how we don't talk anymore, we've been talking a lot more. But now I am confused. I don't know if I am more comfortable around her now or if I have just plain lost interest. Can someone please help me out with this? ](*,) Link to comment
darkblue Posted December 28, 2005 Share Posted December 28, 2005 Why don't you try spending more time with her and see what kind of feelings you have for her. If you don't feel the same - it won't seem weird because you are friends. Link to comment
Sam _ Posted December 28, 2005 Author Share Posted December 28, 2005 Why don't you try spending more time with her and see what kind of feelings you have for her. If you don't feel the same - it won't seem weird because you are friends. Well, I have been confused about this for a couple months now. Are there any questions I could ask myself to figure this out? Link to comment
darkblue Posted December 28, 2005 Share Posted December 28, 2005 Well, feelings of that nature vary from person to person. The only thing you need to ask yourself is, when you see her: Are you attracted to her? Link to comment
Sam _ Posted January 4, 2006 Author Share Posted January 4, 2006 Well, feelings of that nature vary from person to person. The only thing you need to ask yourself is, when you see her: Are you attracted to her? Okay. I still don't know whether I am still attracted to her or not. We've been around each other a lot these past couple of days and I still can't tell. It's like I'm in the middle of being attraced to her and not attracted to her. Link to comment
darkblue Posted January 4, 2006 Share Posted January 4, 2006 Hmm. Could you picture yourself dating her? Kissing her, etc? Link to comment
Sam _ Posted January 4, 2006 Author Share Posted January 4, 2006 Hmm. Could you picture yourself dating her? Kissing her, etc? Yes. She just told me about an hour ago that she is in a relationship right now though. But, oddly enough, I am completely fine about it. I mean, I don't feel bad that I never made a move or feel any heartache or anything what so ever. Why is it that I feel like this? Link to comment
darkblue Posted January 4, 2006 Share Posted January 4, 2006 Maybe you just deeply care about her. I don't think it matters too much when she is in a relationship, and you are doing your own thing. Link to comment
Sam _ Posted January 5, 2006 Author Share Posted January 5, 2006 I don't think it matters too much when she is in a relationship, and you are doing your own thing. I don't really understand what you mean by that. Do you mind explaining? Link to comment
darkblue Posted January 5, 2006 Share Posted January 5, 2006 If she is in a relationship, and you are moving on by seeing other girls - it doesn't really matter what you feel for her, because nothing will happen. Link to comment
Sam _ Posted January 5, 2006 Author Share Posted January 5, 2006 If she is in a relationship, and you are moving on by seeing other girls. Well, technically, I'm not seeing any other girls. I haven't liked any other girl since I started liking Snow. Link to comment
darkblue Posted January 5, 2006 Share Posted January 5, 2006 Now that would be a sign that you are into her more than you think.. Link to comment
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