Ex girlfriend..

[desirablenikki07]

What does it mean when a guy hangs alot with his ex girlfriend ??? Cause the guy i like.. told me he likes me alot ect u know how it goes.. but the thing is..i realized he always hangs around with some girl.. like ALOT.. and my friend told me that thats his ex girlfriend.. does he still like his ex gf?... is he playing me!?

[darkblue]

You like him - that does not mean that he has a committment to you.

He might like his ex. Or they may have just separated on good terms.

 

One way to find out...

(not asking, btw)

[desirablenikki07]

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[desirablenikki07]

It's not about commitment..when you tell someone you like THEM..ALOT.. you have to stick to that

[desirablenikki07]

and what's the way I need to find out

[SuperDuper]

Maybe he likes her as a friend. Maybe he likes you as a friend.

There's absolutley no way any of us here can answer this.

You're in a better position than any of us are.

 

I agree with Db, there's basically only one way to find out, and by asking will not get you off to a good start, im guessing.

 

I suggest you play it cool, and not let it worry you too much. He hasn't comitted to you, so he isn't obligated to do anything.

 

If he really likes you, in time he'll let you know by showing you. Just give it time, and enjoy your holidays.

 

Good Luck.

[darkblue]

If he is still caught up with his ex - it's not good for you to be in the midst of that. It will only cause heartache.

 

Try flirting with him and see how he reacts.

[desirablenikki07]

ok thanks

[darkblue]

Awwh.

I feel that I have to keep talking now!!

 

Don't fret, desirable.

One way or another, you will eventually know what his true intentions are.

 

The reason I'm advising you not to come straight out and ask him about his intentions is simply because it can be seen as over zealous/clingy, which may scare him off.

If he really does like you - let him prove it! By coming to you.

Contact him less, and keep your own life intact.

 

Good luck, and you know where I am if you want to talk.

[desirablenikki07]

ok thanks

[darkblue]

Good luck

[ShySoul]

desirablenikki07, He could just be friends with the ex, or he could still like her. Hard to tell. I agree, flirt and see how he responds.

[SnoGirl42]

i'm in the same situation as you are. except i didnt know that this girl was his ex until i found out through myspace...long story. but you should just wait it out. i mean he told you that he likes you now you have to let him prove it through his actions...such as asking you to see a movie, dinner, etc. and calling you frequently. i say that if he doesnt do this then most likely he sees you as a friend. which there is no harm in that! who knows what can happen in the future right?? good luck. and in the mean time i suggest that you try your best not to get too into this guy until you know more about how he feels about you.

[Ghostrider4042005]

you should start asking him on dates and get to know him and maybe he'll see you're the real deal and him and his ex will go i'm still really close with all my ex's cept for one but that's different so just give him time