What now?

[SomeGuy112]

Ok so I went out of this date with this girl today. I definitely like her and I think she feels the same about me. Anyway I kissed her once by the falls and again at her house before she went in. Lip kisses but just lip. So the thing is neither of us has kissed someone from the opposite sex before (or I guess anyone for that matter), and the whole concept of french kissing is just a bit intimidating for me at least, and probably for her. I don't want to like sit down and talk about it yet because it's too early in a relationship to sit down and talk about things lol, but it seems to me like it's supposed to be a natural part of a relationship that comes fairly soon. Like I said we're both pretty new at this and frankly, no idea what we should do lol. It's hard to tell if she even wants to or not. I mean I don't know it's just really pretty difficult for me to figure out how fast things like this are supposed to go. And no it's not my only goal or aim or anything I just want the relationship to develope like it should so i'm trying to get advice in the parts I'm not as good at. Thanks.

 

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Oh also, we cuddle a lot and so we're comfortable with each other. I think we are just more stiff I guess (if we even are) when kissing because we are new to it. Does that just go away with time?

[Metalicsword]

Well, your situation is the best for anything to come in the future. You are both in-experienced, leaving it much more fun to explore with each other. Next time you go in for a kiss, dont be afraid. Open your mouth with hers, but dont add tongue just yet. And, if she inserts hers first its even better for you. Just do that, and see her reaction, and move from there.

[Dregnought]

and the whole concept of french kissing is just a bit intimidating for me at least

Then your not quite ready for it. Trust me, it will come, naturally. Having said that, Congrats on the gf, and Merry Christmas.

 

Oh also, we cuddle a lot and so we're comfortable with each other. I think we are just more stiff I guess (if we even are) when kissing because we are new to it. Does that just go away with time?

Yes

[ShySoul]

Listen to Dregnought. If you two are still uncomfortable with talking about it with each other, it is probably too soon to be going for it. These things develop naturally with time and become easier once you are closer and more comfortable. For now, take your time, take things slow. Enjoy just being able to cuddle together, that is the most incredible of feelings. Don't be nervous or scared, just relax and enjoy being with her and being able to kiss her.