I really need a voice of reason, please!

[frecklegirl]

I totally hate games and those of you that have read my thread know that I have played too many or played along....

 

I am asking anyone that will slap me in the head and wake me up to please respond!!!

 

I am an idiot. I am sad. I am lonely . Yet I should not be..............

 

I deserve more............can someone out there remind me of that theory??Sorry, I am really feeling like I am out there, and there are too many good people I believe with blind faith, that want to love us and be with us as two people in love should be.............I am not sure what that looks like. I wish I knew it, but maybe I have to feel it....I know what it must look like and it CANNOT look like this, can it???????

[LiquidCherry]

How about this: If you are asking someone to remind you that you deserve more then.. You already know it's true! You'd never ask someone to remind you of an appointment you didn't have now would you?

[Blue Skittles]

Hey girl, I know where you are coming from. Yesterday, I felt sad and lonely too, wondering if I would ever find an exclusive relationship. Then, I bought a guitar. I can't tell you how good that makes me feel, how free that makes me feel. I could live my whole life with my cats and guitar and nothing else in the world would bother me.

 

So I say, go out and buy yourself something that will make you feel sooo good, that will make you feel on top of the world, and you will feel so much better. Do something to better yourself, concentrate on yourself and not the others around you. I don't know you, so I don't know what this is for you, but I'm sure you know in your heart what it is.

 

A friend of mine gave me some advice once - he said love yourself, and be yourself, and let people be attracted to you for who you are. So, the first thing is to get to know yourself and be completely comfortable being with yourself.

 

Good luck, Feel better.

[frecklegirl]

thanks everyone....Liquidcherry, you are right I do know, but for some crazy reason I feel so unsure. I DID not allow him to move when he asked last year, but now that he moved here with another, I want IT! I feel like we are meant to be......that kind of once in a life time love.

 

Blue Skittles, guitar huh? I have always wanted to learn Also for me it is working out and being really toned. That makes me feel good and lately I have been drinking too much then feeling too bad. I want to finally FEEL and know that if someone does not want me, I should just know there must be someone who REALLY does and I will love him too.....right? Damn, I sound soooooooooooo insecure, and am feeling that way today.