Dazed and Confused

[heignoresme]

My BF has posted to this site for relationship help. I found this out when I came on the computer today. I know things aren't good and I have been trying to talk about it with him SERIOUSLY for a very long time. But he won't discuss it with me. I find out from his post that he's been cheating on me. I never thought he would have done that. I am just looking for answers and I've had enough. How do you seriously break off a relationship that has apparently gone sour? I was happy even though we are in a slump, but it is obvious from what he has written here that he's very UNhappy. I love him so much that I am willing to let him go, if that's what he needs to do.

 

How do I do this?

[PocoDiablo]

Well, if he cheated on you, I would personally walk out the door.

 

You deserve a lot better. Actions speak louder than words. No matter what he's said, it's clear he is disrespectful of you.

 

Once the trust is gone, you'll have a VERY hard time rebuilding. It's not worth it in my experience.

[ratherbesailing]

heignoresme -

 

Are you looking for the words to say to him to end it or are you trying to figure out how to let go of him in your heart?