First time and scared

[maryale]

I had sex for the first time this Saturday at 3am and I'm going crazy. I mean the sex was good and even though my boyfriend and I were virgins it was good. It hurt a little and we even did it two times but I'm scared now.

Anyway, He was aware of everything, he used condom and he was always checking out but he got off inside of me and that's driving me crazy.

I told him to give me some pills and he gave me two that are for 72 hours and I took one yesturday night and another one this morning, but I'm scared because I took them two days after. I took them because my friend recommended them to me because she uses them all the time.

Also, I have my period every beginning of each month and now I have to wait like 20 days more until january to see what's going on.

Help.

[Paranoid]

What were the pills he gave you? The Morning After pill? Since you used condoms you should be pretty safe, plus the protection from the morning after pill....there's really nothing to worry about. Don't get yourself so worked up about it because stress can delay a period. Just relax and enjoying loving him.

[chai714]

Mary,

If you're going to be having sex and you don't want a child, educate yourself on the number of birth control options. If you live in the U.S., then Planned Parenthood gives it away for free (and I think it's confidential, so your parent's won't find out). Meanwhile, don't have sex again until you are on the pill.

[WildChild]

Mary,

If you're going to be having sex and you don't want a child, educate yourself on the number of birth control options. If you live in the U.S., then Planned Parenthood gives it away for free (and I think it's confidential, so your parent's won't find out). Meanwhile, don't have sex again until you are on the pill.

 

My thoughts as well

[RayKay]

Mary,

If you're going to be having sex and you don't want a child, educate yourself on the number of birth control options. If you live in the U.S., then Planned Parenthood gives it away for free (and I think it's confidential, so your parent's won't find out). Meanwhile, don't have sex again until you are on the pill.

 

Ditto! The pill, or at least another safe option for you with a discussion with your doctor. Some women have bad reactions to pill, so you need to talk to them.

 

Also, you have to now ensure you get regular doctors exams if you are going to be sexually active.

 

Be aware even with protection there is ALWAYS a risk, but using two methods can really cut that risk down a lot.

 

You are probably fine if you used a condom, it did not break/leak and you used the morning after pill - it's most effective as long as you take it in first 72 hours.

[maryale]

Thank you for your replies.

Well, I used condoms and he gave me the morning afterpill but those were like 72hours pills and I took them yesturday Monday-9:45pm and I had sex Saturday-3:00am.

 

Is there are pills of the week-after. I heard that somewhere.

 

Well, I don't live in the U.S. and I can't get pills without my mom's authority because I'm 17 years old. I can tell my boyfriend to buy me some but as you say some pills won't work for me since my period is normal and puctual. Besides, I would like to take pills that won't have secundary effects in the future.