I need to know if I'm doing the right thing

[Minor]

Okay. I met this girl, let's call her Sue for now. I met her in school, in my French class. I was attracted to her before we started talking - she's gorgeous. Then eventually we started talking and she was really nice to me, from there on out, she was all I thought about all day - constantly daydreaming. Then out of nowhere one time when there was a tornado drill in the school, we happened to see each other when we were sitting in the hallway and she locked her arms with mine and put her head on my shoulder and sorta cuddled with me for a while. That did it for me - I was hooked. That night online we were talking and she eventually told me she was "seriously attracted" to me, but she had a boyfriend. But she said that she wasn't happy with this guy and said she was going to break up with him and come to me the next day - in all seriousness. The next day I get a message saying she didn't break up with him, sorry if I thought she was serious but she can't hang out with me today, sorry. That hurt pretty damn bad, but then she wanted me to come to the homecoming dance with her. I went because I had nothing else to do, and we freaked danced like mad... - that was fun. Then the next day online she talked about how she was a tiger in bed, and wanted to know, hypothetically, how I'd get into bed with her. I started talking about stuff I'd do, then she told me to stop because she was feeling guilty about it. So then the next week is sortof uneventful then she breaks up with her boyfriend the following weekend. Now, she knows I care for her, and it was really her choice if she wanted to go out with me. She didn't, instead, she started talking about these other guys she was interested in... that hurt a lot too, I know she has a right, but it really stung. Then after that it seemed like she ignored me for a while, then I finally asked her if she wanted to be with me - she said no. I guess I wasn't expecting a different answer, but I wanted some type of closure to it so if I was to move on, I know I wouldn't be leaving anything behind. So for the past week I've tried as hard as I possibly could to forget about her, I've ignored her almost completely, except for a few nods of acknowledgement in the hallways. But now, more than ever, she's jumped back into my mind - I can't stand being away from her like this, I feels like... love. Is it best for me to block off what I feel for her or is there anything else I should do?

[BabyGirl16]

In my opinion, I don't believe that you are at all in love with her. I believe that you are in love with the idea of being with her. I'm not an expert on love and there is no way for me to know what your true feelings are... What I see, is a boy who took like upon this girl, she treated him descent, and said a couple of inducing words to him and now he often sit and daydream about him and her. Imagining them together and how it would be. Based on what you just said, I can tell that you have never been in love. You are infactuated with this girl. I believe that you should take a deep look into your self and find out your true feelings. A piece of advice, we all often mistake love with an idea or image of what we assume love to be. And another thing, it does not seem that this girl is in love with you, because she's conversating to you about other boys and not at all pursuing a definite commitment to you. Your young, enjoy life and the experience. And realize that when you are in love you will know it no questions asked.