how long till we figure it out

[kamurj]

So what if I am with the perfect guy who treats me the way I've always wished for. Every woman I know wants a clone. He's smart, funny, great cook, great friend, and a thousand miles away. He's always sure that this is what he wants (at least for now), and I'm sure too... some of the time. He is one of the best people I've ever met, and yet I get nervous that we are both just wasting our time and we aren't going to end up together in the end. We have at least half a decade to send each other sappy letters, spend time molding our heads to the phone and waiting for planes and buses. How can I become more sure that this is the right thing to do? I doubt I could find a better friend, so why am I saw hesitant to just be happy and wait?

[sisterlynch]

I don't know how being so far from each other is really so great? Isn't that a little dishonest? Maybe you are nervous because you don't know what he is doing when you aren't around?