What do you guys think a girl that does something like this

[NN2]

What would you think if you were sitting down in a library minding your own business and doing your work. And some chick walks up to your desk taps it and then when you look up, she looks in your eyes for like 5 secs and then walks away, without saying anything, and more importantly why would SHE do this? If she was interested why not just say hi or something.

[DN]

Because she wants you to pursue her.

[Day_Walker]

I would think that she wanted to get my attention and that she wanted me to respond to her actions.

[coma]

Most likely she works for an underground terrorist organization. You were at the drop point and she confused you with her connection. The signal was the tapping. When you didn't respond by jumping up and down on one leg and making "Ahhhooooguh" noises as per the original agreement, she went looking for the real Mr. Dirkastan.

 

Duh.

[lillady898]

My brother had something quite similar happen at college one year. He was in his dorm room, and his door was open as usual. Some girl came into his door, stood there, giggled a little bit, and turned around a left. He was completely turned off by this.

 

She could have done this to you for different reasons. For instance, it could have been a dare (yes, odd at that age, but that's what my brother thinks the girl in his situation was doing). Or, she could have been trying to get your attention and let you know that she exists. Regardless, it probably would have made it a little less weird if she just said "Hi."

[Iceman26]

I would think she was weird.

[jordan_2]

NN2,

how do u feel about this situation?

and did you find her attractive (and I mean more than just looks wise) did she give off a vibe that attracted you to her? I'm gonna go ahead and assume yes because you're still contemplating it well after the actual situation occurs...so let me tell u this now

if you can remember what true feeling you got when you looked into her eyes, pursue it...

go to the library again and see if she's there....

look at her for 5 seconds (kinda like returning the first look and see how she reacts... then go from there....

[patience]

sounds 'gamey' to me...but if you're attracted to her, say hi the next time you cross paths...you have nothing to lose

[lifeiscash]

Me being the person I am, I would call her out on it, and make fun of her. I wouldn't make it mean but just to let her know I thought it was really weird. I'd say something like, "I know you wanted to get my attention, but I don't see why you just did that, u seem like the type that can't hold a conversation, that true?.." Then id put some sly smile on my face.. It's fun to do things like that.. call people out by the way they act, its amazing the things you would hear afterwards.

[Jetta]

Maybe she thought she knew you, until she looked into your eyes.

 

My brother has numerous look a likes in the world. When I see one I stare and wonder why my own brother didn't say hi to me. Then I realize it wasn't my brother after all when they got close enough for me to look into their eyes.

[easyguy]

I'd say something like, "I know you wanted to get my attention, but I don't see why you just did that, u seem like the type that can't hold a conversation, that true?.." Then id put some sly smile on my face.. It's fun to do things like that.. call people out by the way they act, its amazing the things you would hear afterwards.

 

Or...

 

"You know, you could have just said 'Hey' if you wanted to get my attention, instead of being all... mysterious."

 

Grin when you say it, and say "mysterious" slowly. She's bound smile back.

[Sexychiick16]

This girl knows what she wants and how to get it.

 

If she didn't get to you, you wouldn't be online

asking advice about what to do about her.

 

Just go with your instincts and roll with it...

 

---She likes YOu---She wants you---eye contact is

a way of showing interest, if you ever learned how

to pick up on body language you'd know that!!

 

Go for it...you got nothing to lose

[ShySoul]

Or maybe he's just puzzeled by some very strange actions?

 

People, stop driving yourself nuts examining everything that happens and wondering if its a sign. Stop doing silly things that make no sense and expecting others to see it as a sign. Why not just try be direct for a change?

 

Ok, do you see this girl often or is this the first time? If you see her, then say hi to her sometime. You don't need to make a comment about this incident, just talk to her and get to know her. If it was a hint, then your giving her the attention she wanted. If not, then at least you can try and make a new friend.

[darkblue]

Personally, I think it's hillarious that some random girl could do this expecting you to get up and, as DN said 'persue her'. Also, what DayWalker said 'to get your attention'.

 

Remarkable really.

 

Did you act on it?

[Markers]

darkblue - depends on how random girl it was.. I don't think it's bad thing to read into stuff like this, it could have been a mistake but why it couldn't be something else as well. You will find out - not too big effort to play along until you find out.

[corvidae]

I agree what Shysoul says first. You get a lot of these posts on this forum, the kind that go "A girl/guy did what does it mean!?!". Nothing, forget about it.

[Markers]

I agree what Shysoul says first. You get a lot of these posts on this forum, the kind that go "A girl/guy did what does it mean!?!". Nothing, forget about it.

 

yeah, if it happens only once, then I agree. If it however is something that happens constantly, you can't ignore it either. Most people posting to these forum just seem to present one or two special occasions which could give good idea to others as well what kind of things keeps happening.

 

Surely you guys agree with me that signals are signals and they should be taken?

[Jack_Frost]

She probably thought you were someone else.