Something i've always wondered,but was always too shy to ask

[in_doubt]

Kind of embarrasing to ask this to anyone face to face so tought i would save myself the embarrassment and ask in a forum instead

 

1. Is it true that when a guy cums, it smells bad. Or does it just depend on the guy?

 

2. Things got heated one time and my boyfriend started rubbing up against me and after a while he told me to get off him because he came, is this at all possible?? For some reason i didnt believe him when he said that. Is it commen for guys to cum during dry sex

 

3. Is rubbing up against eachother similar to sex? Or are they way different to eachother, I know nothing goes in when its just dry humping liturally but is the feeling similar?

 

Thanks in advance for any responses. I was too embarrased to ask any of my friends

[DiscipleOfChange]

well, I don't know about number 1, but with regards to number 2, anytime that a huy is stimulated enough, sure its possible that he can come. And #3, well, I don't think so, sex is intercourse or oral, but dry humping is just that.

[amanda22]

#1 i dont know. the guy i used to be with didnt smell. maybe its diff. for some people. if its really obviously foul, my guess might be there is something wrong with him as in disease or hygiene, but i really dont know.

 

#2 yeah its possible. some guys get real turned on and cum easy. ever seen american pie? the girl didnt even touch the guy and he came. but yeah stimulation can def cause that.

 

#3 i guess some movements may be similar and you still get aroused but i would say it feels diff cause diff things obviously happen.

[melrich]

1. I suppose any smell can be offensive to some people but generally speaking I don't think the smell of semen is likely to offend many people. It is usually just a vague musty sort of smell. May change with diet I guess.

 

2. Yes this is common, especially for younger guys.

 

3. I assume you are asking for a male point of view? No the feelings would be quite different even though the resulting climax is the same.

[in_doubt]

Thanks for that guys, it cleared a few things up for me

 

 

#1 i dont know. the guy i used to be with didnt smell. maybe its diff. for some people. if its really obviously foul, my guess might be there is something wrong with him as in disease or hygiene, but i really dont know.

 

Hmmm, i've never noticed the smell to be honest, but my boyfriend told me that it smells bad, i never asked him why or if all guys were the same. Since your saying it might have something to do with hygiene or disease.. im just turned off actually. Maybe i should tell him to get checked up

[melrich]

Well if you have not noticed anything I think you should just let it ride. to be honest I think any different smells would be more to do with diet than anything else.

[amanda22]

uh, did your boyfriend say that he, himself smelled? or that all guys smell in general?

 

ive heard alot of women think they smell bad and they think its strong but really its not that strong and some guys love the "scent" of a women. i dont know if its the same thing for guys.

 

if it was about himself maybe he is just self conscious about his smell?

 

really i dont think its a big deal if you dont really smell it. like i said unless your running out the door or plugging your nose i dont see a problem.

 

or maybe he is self conscious and you just have to assure him you really dont smell that much at all and he is fine the way he is.

[goddess23]

hey ive always wondered some of those questions too!! and yeah my bf came during just rubbing up against me it. not often often but i think if its long enough then yeah. and if you were only in your underwear then its likely.

[June4life]

1. i think it smells like chlorine, personally.

 

2. yes, it's possible. Just because he wasnt having sex doesnt mean he cant ejaculate. Ever hear of wet dreams?

 

3. Kinda the same, kinda different. The emotional aspects are usually there but the physical are a little different.

[Vert]

1. As most posters have stated, it is not truly odorous or offensive most of the time. It all depends on what the guy ate and especially what he's been drinking that day. Believe it or not, drinking something like pineapple juice will cause ejaculate to be very sweet and sugary while drinking beer, soda, etc. will give off a stronger, more odorous smell (and taste a lot worse).

 

2. Obviously any kind of friction that lasts long enough and is pleasurable to his penis will bring him to orgasm. It has to be embarrassing for him so I'd just let it go.

 

3. The mental aspect is nearly the same -- preparing for sex -- but the end result isn't. It all depends on if you see sex as a combination of three things -- the spiritual, the emotional, and the physical.

[darkblue]

1. As previously mentioned ( I think ) It depends on diet. Google it - there is plenty of information there.

 

2. Yes.

 

3. No.

[Eric f]

well number 1 it has a distinct smell it doesnt really stink to me,

2 dry humping hurt me and wasnt really that pleasureble but it is possible.

i just did it to pleasure my gf

[mal21]

#1 I used to date this guy that his smelled really bad. I use to wonder wether it happened the same with every guy but, the current one does not smell bad at all.

[Shadows Light]

1. Is it true that when a guy cums, it smells bad. Or does it just depend on the guy?

 

Depends on the guy. His diet and cleanliness. Too much red meat or beer and it has a different smell and taste to it. For sure! There are a number of websites that will tell you the same thing. You can control smell and taste to a point. A diet that is balanced is a good idea. Fruits and vegitables. I've heard Pineapple juice and fresh fruits give it a lighter consistancy, smell and taste. BUT yes.. it varies from guy to guy.

 

2. Things got heated one time and my boyfriend started rubbing up against me and after a while he told me to get off him because he came, is this at all possible?? For some reason i didnt believe him when he said that. Is it commen for guys to cum during dry sex

 

Yes it is possible. And yes...the younger they are the quicker they will blow.

 

3. Is rubbing up against eachother similar to sex? Or are they way different to eachother, I know nothing goes in when its just dry humping liturally but is the feeling similar?

 

Its dissimular to sex in that there the feeling of it is different. It is a prelude to sex and it is an intinctive move to rub yourself on your partner during foreplay... or making out.

 

Hey... no problem. I had the same problem at your age. Always wondered why they called it a "BLOW JOB"... do you actually blow on it or what??? LOL. And I finally did have to ask one of my friends to find out how its done. Knowledge is power. Don't ever be afraid to ask a question. Only the questions that go unasked are the dumb ones.