jecht Posted August 21, 2005 Share Posted August 21, 2005 hey theirs this girl i've had a crush on for like forevr and i want to ask her out but i'm too shy to do this and i don't know what i would ask her to do on the date please help me Link to comment
easyguy Posted August 21, 2005 Share Posted August 21, 2005 Get to know her first. Be friends with her first, and in the process, you will find out if she has a boyfriend. Being rejected because she said she is taken is the worst kind of rejection, so find out from her in conversation (don't ASK her if she has a boyfriend, just talk to each other more and more and if she has one, she'll bring him up). I used to be super shy myself around girls I had a crush on (it's perfectly normal in fact). You just have to think of her as a human being, just like you and I. The most important thing is to be confident around her and be yourself. Trying to be someone you're not will backfire on you sooner or later. Take baby steps if you have to. Ask her what her name is, compliment her on something she is wearing. Slowly get to know her. Good luck! .. and don't be shy Link to comment
jecht Posted August 21, 2005 Author Share Posted August 21, 2005 well acually i know here we are some what of friends Link to comment
easyguy Posted August 21, 2005 Share Posted August 21, 2005 Do you know if she has a boyfriend? Link to comment
jecht Posted August 21, 2005 Author Share Posted August 21, 2005 i'm pretty sure she is single Link to comment
easyguy Posted August 21, 2005 Share Posted August 21, 2005 Ask her if she'd like to hang out sometime. Link to comment
jecht Posted August 21, 2005 Author Share Posted August 21, 2005 how would i do this and what do u mean by hangout Link to comment
Strictly4MyGrind Posted August 21, 2005 Share Posted August 21, 2005 Go up to her or ring her basically make contact with her and then strike up a conversation and start talking bring up something she mite like to do like a film then say "would you like to hang out" or something along those lines. and hangout is something like invite her to your place and watch a film or go do something that ud both enjoy.... anything. you dont have anything to lose so go for it. or youl regret you never took the chance. Link to comment
easyguy Posted August 21, 2005 Share Posted August 21, 2005 you dont have anything to lose so go for it. or youl regret you never took the chance. Yup. As they say, nothing ventured, nothing gained. Go for it, and don't think about your every move. Just DO IT. Link to comment
Markers Posted August 21, 2005 Share Posted August 21, 2005 her loss if she doesn't want to be with you, right? Link to comment
jecht Posted August 22, 2005 Author Share Posted August 22, 2005 thanks everyone for th help Link to comment
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