Women tactic in the 1st and 2nd order

[IDEAWHAT]

I am newb - No doubts

 

I realized I read a lot of information based on what to do to get laid ASAP.

However I am lead to believe different tactics are in use when a relationship is in order?

 

What's the difference between a woman wanting a man for the night, or for flirt purposes.. etc etc

 

between

 

A woman wanting a relationship with a guy?

Do you women slow down and learn the other person? Do you try and hook up straight away? Develop from friends?

 

What's the deal?

 

 

I know there is no set rules or law for this stuff. Everyone is different. Just some general feedback would be great.

Interesting general knowledge for the old memory cells.

 

 

Cheers.

[Day_Walker]

I think the differnce between a one night stand and a relationship is pretty simple, a woman has to want to have them. Its pretty clear cut, the situation has a lot to deal with timing. Another thing that is important is what she wants from you, she may not want to be in a relationship with you she may just want friends or she may just want a one night stand. So its about what she wants from her perspective, but its also what you want and those two have to match up in some way. Now people do get fooled into thinking that people want things that they dont.

 

Its hard to say because each relationship with different, some people prefer to slow things down, build a friendship first then move from there, while others it doesnt take them that long to decide with they want and others might just hook up and decide to have a relationship. Its all going to depend on timing, the type of girl and other factors.

 

The basic idea is to have fun with the situation because it may not last so enjoy it while you can. If you are aware of what you want then you will be ahead of the game.

[Beec]

I don't know that they need to be that different. I think stretching things out over time helps. You get more emotionally involved and don't just burn out.

 

I also think that women often accept less sexual attraction from relationship guy, than they do from the one night stand. The one night stand is all about sex and sexual attraction. The relationship is about more than that. Often, there is not enough to support a relationship in the areas that matter, after the exchange of bodily fluids. They don't share interests, values, etc., they just both wanted each other in a physical way.

 

The getting laid stuff need to be incorporated in my opinion, but they cannot be the only thing. This stuff is all about sexual attraction, and it works. You want her to feel that. But understand it is only part of it.

 

You also need a friendship and respect, shared interests, values, and a vision of where you are going together.

[IDEAWHAT]

Great responce fellas

 

Im gathering the more mature and experienced females would enjoy the "getting to know you" part before commiting then the younger minded girls

 

Thanks a heap

[MrSalsa69]

Great responce fellas

 

Im gathering the more mature and experienced females would enjoy the "getting to know you" part before commiting then the younger minded girls

 

Thanks a heap

 

Don't let the name fool yah!

 

I'm 40 and when I was 25 I had problems finding a serious relationship with women. They all had the idea that all men have the "Wham, Bamb, Thank You Ma'am!" attitude.

 

I started dating older women. Say like 35 - 40 Years old and found that their attitude is totally different than the younger ones. I eventually married a woman 42 when I was 26! We stayed together for about six years.

 

Now that I'm older and 40, I'm seeking women the same age as me.

 

My personal oppinion is that younger women should carefully observe how older women repond and act around men. Not that I disrespect younger women. I feel that they could learn a few things, just as we all can.

 

Isn't that why we chose to visit this forum?

 

Example:

 

A man comes up to a woman that he may know or may not, he compliments her on something she is doing.

 

Responses:

 

Younger Women:

"Yeah, and?" or "Ok?"

You get the idea of the kind of reponse I'm talking about. She is not tring to be rude, she is just not sure how to respond to compliments.

 

Older Women:

"Why, Thank You!"

 

Now I never here the younger woman respond like that, case the maturity is just not there. remember maturity has nothing to do with age though!

[skyteph]

Example:

 

A man comes up to a woman that he may know or may not, he compliments her on something she is doing.

 

Responses:

 

Younger Women:

"Yeah, and?" or "Ok?"

You get the idea of the kind of reponse I'm talking about. She is not tring to be rude, she is just not sure how to respond to compliments.

 

Older Women:

"Why, Thank You!"

 

Now I never here the younger woman respond like that, case the maturity is just not there. remember maturity has nothing to do with age though!

 

When people compliment me I always say 'thank you'. They went out of their way to make /me/ feel good, why would i want to be rude back?

[IDEAWHAT]

This is just my opinion...

 

In general, when a female is of a younger age... especially if she is in the area of "male hunting" activities.... and a male says "GEE you look stunning" - SHE will automatically take that as an invitation for sex. She will then deny him as she is in control, winning the game.

 

On the other hand..

 

In general, an older woman (30's) is being complimented.. most likely in the area where mature males would compliment them in a different setting (friends house?).. she would see it as a genuine compliment. The male shows interest for her after putting sex second. For the female of age.. the game is not so important.

 

I am no pro.. but thats how I see it.