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The best way of giving a hand job is to ask the person who's on the receiving end to show you want he wants. Then after that, practice makes perfect!

 

However, I hope you don't get a guy like my first husband who never told me or showed me what to do and complained about being hurt. All it did was knock my confidence and hurt my feelings and I was reluctant to do it after that!

 

The thing is we were both virgins and he'd never masturbated before because he thought it was morally wrong!

 

Good luck.

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Soon2bfamous,

 

Here are a few random tips off the top of my head...

 

-Keep it wet/slippery ... use lotion, lubricant, whatever... nothing hurts more than lots of friction when its dry, I'm a girl but ask any guy and they'll second that! (or if you're giving a blowjob, well you don't need to use any 'extra' lubrication usually, but you're asking about a hand job, so ...)

 

-Don't do it too lightly. Their whole 'package' is not as delecate or easy to hurt as we originally seem to think. Although, it's better to be too careful rather than too harsh at first, obviously! But a having a good grip on it, giving it a decent squeeze, is good.

 

-Don't be too monotonous. It shouldn't just be a boring up-down-up-down motion. Go up and down, but then once ina while circle your palm around the head, or play with the 'twins', whatever you want. You can pretty much do anything (within reason) and it will feel good.

 

-Monotony IS good when ... they're close to coming. Don't ever switch things up towards the very very end, just keep doing whatever you're doing until he's done coming. So you're probably wondering, how do you know he's close?? Ask him to give you a 'signal'. Some people don't like belting out 'oh, i'm going to come!', so agree on a signal. For example, my ex and I used to have a very basic signal (that we both used, whether I was going down on him or him down on me). He would reach down and lighly hold my wrist/arm and give it a quick double-squeeze.

 

-When you start getting a little more familiar with the basics, you can get more creative, use both hands and grab it with your indexfingers and thumbs-- so it wil be like two rings around it-- and then move them in opposite directions. This will drive him crazy, trust me, lol. Or when using just one hand, twist your hand around while going up and down, as if you're drawing an '8' (but twist your hand around it, don't twist 'it', definitely not it, lol)

 

Theres a ton of other things, but this is what i can think of off the top of my head. I'm sure others will have plenty to add!

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