So i have a girlfriend,but there another girl who wants me

[thetruthintheformofhiphop]

Ok so lets say if you have a girlfriend, and she lives in another city, and you rarely see each other but love each other to death,(been dating for quite some time), but then you go to school or where ever and theres this girl that likes you and she goes to work/school with you or lives near you and you cans ee each other alot. My question is the following.

 

1.Should you go out with this girl and the other girl to.

 

2.Should you break up with the other girl and see if she wants to get back to gether and see if she is willing to make this work even though its like long distance?

 

3.Should you not go out with the girl that wants to go out with you

 

4.Is this an age old question.

 

Thanks for answering.

[Day_Walker]

I think its a question that you have to ask yourself. You know how you feel about the girlfriend as opposed to the new girl. Its also going to have to do with what direction the relationship is headed. If it is simply a relationship that is there just because or is there a future. At 16 I dont think that you have any long term goals but all you can do is ask yourself which one you want to be with then you have your answer.

[blondjeanyis2009]

Ok, don't go out w/ both of them. That wouldn't be fair to them or you.

Then ask yourself, who you really like the most. And if you really like this person. You'll want to make it so it works out. Thats what I would do.

[arwen]

If you love the one that lives in another city 'to death' I think you wouldn't be asking this question here. Don't date both of them at the same time. I think your girlfriend will really feel cheated and you might end up losing both of them.

 

Ilse.

[volution]

It makes me so angry inside, when I hear people even think of cheating when they claim to love their 'girlfriend' to pieces.

Some people don't even get ONE girlfriend in their lives, yet some are quite willing to give up something special just for the heck of it.

In the end, comeuppance will find you if you two-time.

It's not fair to waste people's time and feelings if your are half-hearted - some people out there don't get a chance to share their love with someone... and some people kill themselves because of being so badly hurt by someone who cheated.

[RayKay]

 

1.Should you go out with this girl and the other girl to.

 

2.Should you break up with the other girl and see if she wants to get back to gether and see if she is willing to make this work even though its like long distance?

 

3.Should you not go out with the girl that wants to go out with you

 

4.Is this an age old question.

 

Thanks for answering.

 

Um..if you love her to death...then why would you even CONSIDER this?

 

1) No. That would be called "cheating" in most people's books. Unless both girls know about one another and are for some reason "alright with it" as it is open dating...I doubt they would be okay with it though.

 

2) Make a decision - one girl or the other. Don't break up with hopes of getting back together with her when its better for you either...it is cruel, and may backfire anyway (likely).

 

3) Right...just because she likes you does not automatically mean you should go out with her...you have a 'girlfriend', right? You will find in life many people like other people, yet they cannot all be together..the interest is not always mutual, or they are INVOLVED.

 

4) Not that I am aware of. Usually people either know they are cheating or not, and decide to cheat or not to cheat. Or they pick one person and stick to them, or break off one relationship before entering another.

 

Respect yourself, the girlfriend and the new girl and don't play both of them.

[JuStAgIrL31806]

That decision is completely up to you. Follow your heart. Dont do anything that you would regret...and MAKE SURE YOU ARE DOING IT FOR THE RIGHT REASONS...and dont be running back and forth...that hurts people feelings, make your decision and make sure that is the choice YOU want.