Candy...

[JLA]

[MetallicAguy]

Well, this "I have too much going on in my life for a bf" stuff is bull. She's just really saying she isn't interested, if Candyce isn't interested there's nothing you can do about that to change that.

 

And her friend wanted to kiss you, what do you mean?

[JLA]

Well, this "I have too much going on in my life for a bf" stuff is bull. She's just really saying she isn't interested, if Candyce isn't interested there's nothing you can do about that to change that.

 

And her friend wanted to kiss you, what do you mean?

 

Honestly though, lots of stuff is going on in her life. I don't want to go into detail but LOTS of stuff is really going on, so it may not be bull? Who really knows?

[MetallicAguy]

If a girl is interested in you she will make herself available period, or at least tell you maybe later on if she TRULY has **** going on in her life.

 

 

Well since you told me that I'm thinking that your gf was close to breaking up with you anyway, Jess told Candyce that she had feelings for you so to me it sounds like Jess caused the break-up so she could get a shot at you.

 

I was talking to some girls and they said that the best friend usually makes a lot of the big deals with the relationship so yeah...I'm assuming that's what happened.

[JLA]

If a girl is interested in you she will make herself available period, or at least tell you maybe later on if she TRULY has **** going on in her life.

 

 

Well since you told me that I'm thinking that your gf was close to breaking up with you anyway, Jess told Candyce that she had feelings for you so to me it sounds like Jess caused the break-up so she could get a shot at you.

 

I was talking to some girls and they said that the best friend usually makes a lot of the big deals with the relationship so yeah...I'm assuming that's what happened.

 

She told me on the Internet, 'Maybe when I get back from xx;' but I don't know if she was sincere.

[MetallicAguy]

Well on the internet you don't know what's sincere really I mean you aren't hearing there voice unless it's through a mic so yeah. You can't really interpret it.

 

Well here's a question, is she normally a liar, like have you caught her lying a few or more times in the relationship? If so I wouldn't trust her as much. It's just best to go with your gut instinct if YOU feel like she isn't being sincere go with that.

[dancesinquicksand]

Ok from a females perspective. I have used this line. She just wants to be friends. You should take it as that. Even though its hard because you obviously have feelings for this girl. Leave it at that.

 

You can't make her want you. Nor can you help that you want more from her. You need to just give her the distance she is asking for. Or it is going to ruin your friendship.

 

You need to just realize this is all your going to get from her. For whatever reason she has, she is just not interested in you that way.