How can I find out what happened?

[arrowbee]

I have this one friend whom I met online. We are both depressed, and that's sort of how we became friends. She sometimes goes through very serious periods of depression. I have not heard from her in over a month. I'm worried she might have done something to herself.

 

She lives 3000 miles away from me. I have no other way of contacting her. We have no mutual acquaintances. How can I find out if she's alright?

 

Or is it none of my business and should I butt out altogether?

[studmaster3265]

hey man

hang in theremaybe shes tying to cope with her depression and shes doing a good job and she wants to come back to you when shes ready, you know stuff like that have you tried calling her? or anything like that?

i mean come on she prob is ok and your warrying over nothing. try not tho think of the bad stuff.

[dpressedone89]

ive been in the same situation. the best thing to do is send her a message and wait for a reply.i had to go away awhile and i had no chance to say goodbye and i couldnt get online and most of my friends thought i died, stay optimistic and wait for a response. i hope all is well