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When I was with my ex-gf, she was more of a sex nut than I was (amazing as that sounds), and when we'd have sex it wouldn't be just once but rather about 4x or so. In a given week, I'd say we'd do it about 16-20 times depending on schedules and if one of us was too busy that week. I'm 27, she's 24.

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About 5-7 times as average a week, depending on our schedules (ie working out of town, training out of town...or sometimes heavy training schedules have us cuddling and falling asleep instead!). We both love sex & intimacy though, and so each "time" generally involves a good amount of foreplay, general "playing", teasing, various positions and general intimacy. I go for quality over quantity anytime...and there is lots of quality! And the playfulness, teasing and intimacy goes outside the bedroom doors too, always....

 

Live with boyfriend. I am 26, and he just turned 29

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About 5-7 times as average a week, depending on our schedules (ie working out of town, training out of town...or sometimes heavy training schedules have us cuddling and falling asleep instead!). We both love sex & intimacy though, and so each "time" generally involves a good amount of foreplay, general "playing", teasing, various positions and general intimacy. I go for quality over quantity anytime...and there is lots of quality! And the playfulness, teasing and intimacy goes outside the bedroom doors too, always....

 

Live with boyfriend. I am 26, and he just turned 29

 

Today? Me too (well, 27 for me).

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Ok, not in a relationship but I'm thinking that how often other people do it doesn't matter. Every couple is going to be different, so focus on how often you guys feel like.

 

And here's a thought: are you considering the length of time involved? Which would you think is more enjoyable, a dozen quick times or one really long session? Just because you do it more often, doesn't mean its more enjoyable or your getting more pleasure.

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Ok.. questions to all you married or in significant other relationships.

 

Survey.....

 

How many times a week do you have WOOPEEEE....

 

And Your Age please.

 

and no.. the question doesn't read.. how many times would you "LIKE" to make wooopeeeee but how many times.. honestly.

 

WOOPEEEE - No offense intended but the word sex is, to me, perfectly adequate.

 

Woopee sounds like an ill dog's excretment

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My girlfriend doesn't believe in sex before marriage, however I do lol.

 

Doh.

 

 

Will I be replying in the infidelity section for you soon?

 

No waay!!!!

 

I think sex is on of the funnest things to do in the world, but I think it shouldn't be the only reason to be in a relationship with someone. There's lots of other important things in a relationship, it doesn't have to be all about the sex.

 

And if I was to want sex with someone else, I'd break up with her rather than cheating (hypothetically).

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1x a week maybe twice but that is rare.

 

I posted here all spring and winter about how my girlfriend and I were only having sex 1x a month so we are currently doing better but I still think we have room for improvement.

 

She has an incredibly low libedo, and some hang ups about sex so she isn't a nympo by any means.

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It changes from week to week. Sometimes from month to month.

 

A few weeks ago 4x in the week. I instigated it! Previously 1 or 2x a month. I instigated it! At present zero. He's 46 and I'm 42 (we've been married for 13 years).

 

However, I dropped a bombshell on him last night! I don't know why I feel this way but in the last 6 years I've fallen in love with 3 women! Growing up I didn't know if I was gay or straight. I've never been with a woman, however, the temptation is getting closer and closer as the years go by!

 

I felt guilty enough before I told him now I'm carrying more guilt because he's not saying anything. I thought at least he would lose his temper! He knows it's not his fault because I had told him how I felt growing up and about two of the women. The problem is I told him when I had no more feelings for them. Unfortunately, this time it's different I'm still having the feelings (it happened in June). It's not the womens fault either I always seem to go for the straight ones!

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hi,

 

im in my thirties, so is my partner, we have sex on average once every 4 to 6 weeks...................only after much nagging by me!!!! probably wouldnt be at all if it wasnt for my nagging lol

 

reading all your posts has made me soooo envious..........all that sex u seem to be having, i would love so much to have a sex life like some of you are having.

 

theres not really an average for how often that people have sex as so many relationships are different.............some love lots of sex whilst others dont and are happy not having as much sex.

 

all i can say is.................as an average i would love to have sex 2 to 3 times a week.

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Vert... thats not funny. Once a month from my guys was a treat... whhhooo hooo... and if there was a holiday in that month say XMAS.. yyyipppeeee.. I can throw myself a party...

 

Sometimes.. there were lulls... of many many moons....

 

 

Thank-you all for your candor.. I'm hoping that you were honest. Now I know I'm not going NUTS..(no pun)...

 

Excuse me... I need to go give my "X" a piece of my mind... and have a ok.. .many many

 

I've been jipped big time... what the hay!!

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Vert... thats not funny. Once a month from my guys was a treat... whhhooo hooo... and if there was a holiday in that month say XMAS.. yyyipppeeee.. I can throw myself a party...

 

Sometimes.. there were lulls... of many many moons....

 

 

Thank-you all for your candor.. I'm hoping that you were honest. Now I know I'm not going NUTS..(no pun)...

 

Excuse me... I need to go give my "X" a piece of my mind... and have a ok.. .many many

 

I've been jipped big time... what the hay!!

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