Darkshadow Posted August 2, 2005 Share Posted August 2, 2005 Is there any girls out there who absolutely had no desire for anyone and is waiting for the man of her dreams to save her? Or trying to find him? Is there any girls who had never gave any form of sexual contact with anyone else? Is there any girl who does not think of other girls in a sexual way, or desire? Is there any virgin girls who are absolutely dedicated to their future love? Any girls who haven't even kissed or more amazingly hugged another guy? Link to comment
Darkshadow Posted August 2, 2005 Author Share Posted August 2, 2005 Lol you crack me up Link to comment
waytoodown Posted August 2, 2005 Share Posted August 2, 2005 Lol...Not me either! I used to not have hugged a guy( and all the other stuff you said) like probly 2 years ago, but then something happened(I'm not too sure what exactly)..... Link to comment
RayKay Posted August 2, 2005 Share Posted August 2, 2005 Is there any girls out there who absolutely had no desire for anyone and is waiting for the man of her dreams to save her? The only comment I have on this is you do not want a girl whom is waiting for someone to "save her"..a girl whom does not realize that only SHE can save herself, is someone whom will not be very healthy to have a relationship with. Be very wary of falling into the "knight in shining armour routine". Chances are VERY high that someone who wants to be "saved" likes being "saved"...and will seek to be "saved" over and over again and once you can no longer do that and the thrill is gone, once they realize "whoa, you have not really saved them (as they need to save themself)", they will seek a new knight. There are some good books about this phenomena. As for the rest of your post, it is healthy to desire, love, want, feel sexual. And how someone acts on that is an individual choice. There are probably many girls out there with limited sexual experience, but if you are going to limit yourself to someone whom has never had a sexual thought, never kissed, hugged, you are probably going to miss out on someone fantastic. And just because someone is "pure", does not mean they will remain dedicated to you forever...that is more about character and the person themself, then their sexual history. Link to comment
shes2smart Posted August 2, 2005 Share Posted August 2, 2005 I agree with what RayKay said. Although, I am curious as to why you're asking these questions. People come with baggage. The older they get, the more they tend to have. Best bet for a healthy, long lasting relationship is to find someone who's unpacked & sorted through their baggage and now has just a carry-on as opposed to several steamer trunks. Link to comment
heart_breaker47 Posted August 2, 2005 Share Posted August 2, 2005 why do you want to know? I agree with RayKay too. Link to comment
Darkshadow Posted August 3, 2005 Author Share Posted August 3, 2005 I already know that trust me. Just a simple "to know" kind of question. I put none of my character or emotions into this. 'A simple poll of a sort. Not that I really want to know I'm just looking to be amused as I have no other source of amusment for the moment. I mean no offense, Sorry but I do take it I may be being judged. But that doesn't matter. Just a couple questions not based on opinion of other's, just truthful statements. I should have made that more clear. Link to comment
Shadows Light Posted August 3, 2005 Share Posted August 3, 2005 Is there any girls out there who absolutely had no desire for anyone and is waiting for the man of her dreams to save her? Ok.. the first one I don't get.. no desire for anyone??? the only "girl" you will get who doesn't desire someone... is a baby quite litterally. As soon as puberty hits... everyone one wants someone or something even if they can't put their finger on exactly what it is they want. NATURE. Waiting for the man of her dreams to save her???? ahhh ok... maybe this is a teen girl who's read to many romance novels. The days of Camelot are long gone. Sorry.. most of us know that Lancelots arn't real or out there anymore. And most of us.. LOL. are too independent to look for that either. Is there any girls who had never gave any form of sexual contact with anyone else? Again... AGE dependant??? Is there any girl who does not think of other girls in a sexual way, or desire? A tricky tricky... girls..and I stress girls.. tend to compare themselves to someone of Iconic value. The Hillary Duff's of the world. The Britiany Spears of the world. And yeah.. I'd think they thought of them in a sexual way... in that they recognize Sexy when they see it and want to mimic. As far as in a SEXUAL SEXUAL way... like want to do it with another woman... ARE YOU KIDDING ME???? are u saying that you think the majority of girls think of other girls in a sexual way and you are looking for those that DON'T to respond???? Wow... you must have that fantasy 90% of men have with women/women and watching them do each other. Is there any virgin girls who are absolutely dedicated to their future love? Not sure what you are trying to say. I'm sure there are girls out there who are virgins and want to remain so until their wedding day. But its a personal thing... its all about them and what the pay off is for them to keep their virginity in tacked.... What kind of brownie points they get from future hubby for being... a virgin. Any girls who haven't even kissed or more amazingly hugged another guy? Age dependant again.... Link to comment
Darkshadow Posted August 3, 2005 Author Share Posted August 3, 2005 I do not fantasize about girls liking girls, and by now I have realized many people do not understand simple questions. May I repeat I put none of my character into these questions. They are simple questions and should be left at that. Realise that these questions are very close to "yes" and "no" questions. I ask for no opinion. Just a simple answer. But people who are "moved" or possibly "offended" seem to state more than any answer but fit in their useless opinions. There really is no need to try and convince or prove or inflict your opinions because these questions do not require them. Yes or No. As simple as existing. I do not care or wish to read what you 'think' I just simply would like a yes or a no. There is no need to make fools out of yourselves. And any further opinions against or for what I type now is just plain immature. But if I have affected you that much please amuse me with your insults or attempts to understand of figure something that has no need to be refined. These forums are for help, am I correct? (Please don't answer that). I'm not looking for help with opinions or help "finding" this girl. I just need help with finding a "yes" or a "no", nothing more. The first reply (by a man) was actually a perfect example on what these answers should look like. Simple without emotions. Unless of course you are deeply enraged for people to read your opinions and desperately want to be "understood". I ask please do not repeat to me on what I already know. If I wanted to know what you have replied to me I would have asked. Remember, YES or NO. Simplicity is often overrated by the mislead. (Which are those who give too much of what is not asked for) Remember you are NOT your OPINION. Thank you. P.S. Not everyone NATURALLY has desire for someone else. Some absolutely don't have any form of desire of that sort. That is just the majority and what you've lived on. Puberty hits yes, but if it is just hormones that control desire then what is your point? Your opinion on what you know would be based on puberty and hormones, not who you are. And on Camelot, you seem too young to even be sure that it has even existed. A bit stereotypical. Link to comment
Shadows Light Posted August 3, 2005 Share Posted August 3, 2005 Aye Aye Sir... sorry. Let see if I can fufill your request. ummmm..... The answer to all your questions is NO. Sorry to have misread your post. By the way.. I liked your poetry.. Shouting Heights Very very nice... Very moving. Link to comment
Darkshadow Posted August 3, 2005 Author Share Posted August 3, 2005 No worries Shadows_Light. I just had to be more clear, it is clearly my mistake not to mention the requested specifics. Link to comment
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