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I agree. I don't think you should let anyone push you into doing something you're not ready to do or don't want to do.


You are quite right, you do run the risk of pregnancy and catching STD's/STI's.


Making out is fine as long as it doesn't go any further. Make sure you know what you are doing and are aware of the risks.

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Sorry which guy is this? Is this a new interest or is this the one who had the gf? Anyways, never let anyone pressure you. Just be sure of your limits and don't go further than you're ready for. Be firm and say no. Make sure you trust the guy before being alone with him.

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Saying "no" to people is hard. When you are young you want to please everyone and you tend to just do what you think the other person wants.


Saying "no" is something you learn and comes with maturity. Don't be tempted to say "yes" just because someone asks you for something. You will learn that people that say "yes" to everything in order to please others do not engender a lot of respect and tend to spend their lives being used by others.

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A good rule of thumb is to decide what you want to do before you even start kissing. Talk with him about how far you're willing to go. It's easier for you to make those decisions and stick to them when you're not already all caught up in everything. He's just broken up with someone so it's a good idea to take things really slowly. Why not go on a few dates first before you start getting too into the physical part of the relationship?

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I have to agree with lady00, I didn't read your history. But he's on the rebound if he just broke up first off. It's good you feel not jumping so fast into things like he wants. But make sure he's over this other girl before you get to too involved. He'll drop you most likely , like yesterdays news, if he still wants his ex back. Goodluck

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