naughtycowgirl Posted July 25, 2005 Share Posted July 25, 2005 Hey guys, I want to call this guy i have been talking to. He is the one to call me first, my mom said you do not call him, you wait for him to call you. But i can't wait much longer. Please HELP ME!!!! Link to comment
jna35 Posted July 25, 2005 Share Posted July 25, 2005 I don't see what the big deal is about you giving him a buzz to say hi. Besides, you say you've already been talking to him. It's JUST a phone call, not a marriage proposal. Be confident enough to give him a call if you want to. You CAN do it- REALLY!! Link to comment
Kookie Posted July 25, 2005 Share Posted July 25, 2005 Your mom is right, as old-fashioned and anti-feminist as it sounds. Let him do the ringing and you just be receptive to it. A guy who likes you will make time to call you. Find other things to do to take your mind off it - hang with friends, get a massage, go shopping, just DON'T CALL HIM. Link to comment
TheUnbornDevil Posted July 25, 2005 Share Posted July 25, 2005 well,, what you want to do is pick up the phone, then DIAL THE NUMBER, i know this i sstressful, but it only gets harder. Then you put it to your ear, i know you're sweating by now, then OMG, WAIT TIL IT RINGS AND SOMEONE PICKS UP!!!! Link to comment
Tigris Posted July 25, 2005 Share Posted July 25, 2005 If I'd had to wait for both my husbands' to call I still be waiting! Phone him when your mother's not there. It sound like your mother's very old fashioned. My mother said the same. However, the saying goes, 'What she doesn't know won't hurt her!' It's only a little white lie, it's not like you're jumping into bed with him! Go for it. Link to comment
RayKay Posted July 25, 2005 Share Posted July 25, 2005 Is this the guy with the gf? That was my question too. If it IS....I would say you don't call him. Find a guy of your own without a girlfriend. Maybe she found out and asked him not to talk to you again! And I say if he calls, you should tell him you do not want to interfere with him and his girlfriend anymore. If he wants to be with you, he should leave her first. Link to comment
DN Posted July 25, 2005 Share Posted July 25, 2005 No reason you should not call him first - unless, as the others ask, he already has a g/f. Link to comment
naughtycowgirl Posted July 25, 2005 Author Share Posted July 25, 2005 you would have to be in my place to understand this guy.. but anyways thanks for trying..obvisoly my topics are to advanved for you guys to answer..... Link to comment
jna35 Posted July 25, 2005 Share Posted July 25, 2005 I don't think this topic is too advanced for anyone to answer. I think the others are simply saying if this guy already has a gf, then you should leave it alone. It's not cool to call on someone else's bf. If he's not attached then there's no reason not to call him. Link to comment
RayKay Posted July 25, 2005 Share Posted July 25, 2005 you would have to be in my place to understand this guy.. but anyways thanks for trying..obvisoly my topics are to advanved for you guys to answer..... Yes, that must be the problem. Don't underestimate us, many people HAVE been in the similar place...or as the girlfriend. Or with the guy who did not let us know they had a gf. It is does not take a degree in advanced pyschology to know that getting involved with a guy who HAS A GIRLFRIEND is bad news for you, him and the girlfriend. Having a lack of respect for his gf just shows a lack of respect for yourself as well. Of course, it sounds like you are going to do whatever you want anyway, so all I can say is good luck, you will probably need a lot of it, especially if this is going to be a pattern for future relationships too. Link to comment
DN Posted July 25, 2005 Share Posted July 25, 2005 you would have to be in my place to understand this guy.. but anyways thanks for trying..obvisoly my topics are to advanved for you guys to answer..... I am so sorry to have had the temerity to answer a post so far beyond my limited powers of understanding. Please accept my heartfelt and humble apologies. I will do my poor best never to repeat such an offensive error. p.s. did you mean obviously and advanced? Link to comment
naughtycowgirl Posted July 25, 2005 Author Share Posted July 25, 2005 i just wanted to know if i should call him...i dont care if he has a girlfriend. he told me that he just wanted someone to talk to..i said the same..so im a lil nervous of calling him.. i really like this guy...but we are just friends Link to comment
jna35 Posted July 25, 2005 Share Posted July 25, 2005 Well, we all gave you our advice on whether to call him or not. Remember, just because advice is given doesn't mean it needs to be taken. I stand by what I originally said, if you're honestly not looking for a relationship with him other than friendship, I don't see a problem with giving him a buzz. But..... if you are trying to come between he and his current gf, then it's best to stay out of it. It's not cool to get involved with someone who is already taken. It's not fair to anyone involved, including you. Good luck! Link to comment
Hope75 Posted July 26, 2005 Share Posted July 26, 2005 i just wanted to know if i should call him...i dont care if he has a girlfriend. he told me that he just wanted someone to talk to..i said the same..so im a lil nervous of calling him.. i really like this guy...but we are just friends Why don't you care if he has a gf? Do you want to get involved with someone who is willing to cheat on his gf? Guess what? My ultra sophisticated powers of observation tell me that if he does it to her, he'll do it to you. Link to comment
Kookie Posted July 28, 2005 Share Posted July 28, 2005 Forget giving her advice, peeps. I think she should call him and then learn from her mistake. The hard way of learning is usually the better way of learning. Link to comment
naughtycowgirl Posted August 2, 2005 Author Share Posted August 2, 2005 well me and him talk on a regular basis now. so no worries Link to comment
Hope75 Posted August 2, 2005 Share Posted August 2, 2005 Does he still have a girlfriend? Link to comment
naughtycowgirl Posted August 2, 2005 Author Share Posted August 2, 2005 yeah he does...y? Link to comment
lady00 Posted August 2, 2005 Share Posted August 2, 2005 I thought you said in another thread that they broke up and that you were going to hook up with him. I'm confused. Link to comment
Hope75 Posted August 2, 2005 Share Posted August 2, 2005 yeah he does...y? What do you expect to happen between you and him? What do you want to happen? Link to comment
lady00 Posted August 2, 2005 Share Posted August 2, 2005 I just found the post I was talking about where you say they broke up: So which is it? Are they together or broken up? Link to comment
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