perfectliljewel Posted August 8, 2005 Author Share Posted August 8, 2005 its not that hard. i guess im lucky in some ways Link to comment
perfectliljewel Posted August 9, 2005 Author Share Posted August 9, 2005 today was my last day of summer so depressing! the pants i have to wear make my a$$ look big it sucks! me and my mom got in a HUGE fight at a store and i took off in the truck. then she almost grounded me so all in all my day sucked Link to comment
Hope75 Posted August 10, 2005 Share Posted August 10, 2005 What pants? You drove off in your mom's truck? Yikes girl! You can get arrested for driving at age 13! I know you get upset but you need to use common sense too. If you go to juvie you can lose your horse and not be able to see your siblings, is that what you want? Link to comment
perfectliljewel Posted August 10, 2005 Author Share Posted August 10, 2005 What pants? You drove off in your mom's truck? Yikes girl! You can get arrested for driving at age 13! I know you get upset but you need to use common sense too. If you go to juvie you can lose your horse and not be able to see your siblings, is that what you want? im related to the sherriff and i can drive as long as i stay in our town b/c its so small Link to comment
Hope75 Posted August 10, 2005 Share Posted August 10, 2005 What pants? You drove off in your mom's truck? Yikes girl! You can get arrested for driving at age 13! I know you get upset but you need to use common sense too. If you go to juvie you can lose your horse and not be able to see your siblings, is that what you want? im related to the sherriff and i can drive as long as i stay in our town b/c its so small Aren't you worried you could get in an accident? It's still illegal, just b/c you are related to the sheriff doesn't make it OK. Girl, you need to be more careful and get your anger in check. I'm worried about you! Link to comment
perfectliljewel Posted August 11, 2005 Author Share Posted August 11, 2005 What pants? You drove off in your mom's truck? Yikes girl! You can get arrested for driving at age 13! I know you get upset but you need to use common sense too. If you go to juvie you can lose your horse and not be able to see your siblings, is that what you want? im related to the sherriff and i can drive as long as i stay in our town b/c its so small Aren't you worried you could get in an accident? It's still illegal, just b/c you are related to the sheriff doesn't make it OK. Girl, you need to be more careful and get your anger in check. I'm worried about you! not really i know how to drive ive drove the truck since i can reach the petals its not that hard Link to comment
darkblue Posted August 11, 2005 Share Posted August 11, 2005 Getting a little off-topic girls How ya doing Jewels? Sorry I've not been on much, but I've got some problems at the moment.. How's Moosh? lol. Link to comment
perfectliljewel Posted August 11, 2005 Author Share Posted August 11, 2005 Getting a little off-topic girls How ya doing Jewels? Sorry I've not been on much, but I've got some problems at the moment.. How's Moosh? lol. haha Jay thats what girls do! yes i know all about your problems but you are the idiot that contributed and moosh is fine thanks a pain but fine. ANNONCMENT: im moving in with josh Link to comment
DN Posted August 11, 2005 Share Posted August 11, 2005 What do your parents think about that? Link to comment
perfectliljewel Posted August 11, 2005 Author Share Posted August 11, 2005 What do your parents think about that? my mom is the one that signed a piece of paper that legally says me and my siblings are no longer hers so... and i thought you were helping me with that english crap Link to comment
Hope75 Posted August 11, 2005 Share Posted August 11, 2005 Your mom signed away her parental rights to all you kids?? To Josh's family? Are they all going with you? When?? Will you each have your own rooms? Where will you sleep? Link to comment
perfectliljewel Posted August 11, 2005 Author Share Posted August 11, 2005 Your mom signed away her parental rights to all you kids?? To Josh's family? Are they all going with you? When?? Will you each have your own rooms? Where will you sleep? well she "disowned" me so she "disowned" the others too because she doesn't want to take care of them because she would have to sober up. yes they are going with me. that's just 3 kids. josh and i will share a room and the other kids have rooms as well. we got it all worked out... no worries it's better then the hell hole i was in Link to comment
Hope75 Posted August 11, 2005 Share Posted August 11, 2005 Josh's family is OK with this? Did you mother say she disowned you, or did she actually sign her rights over legally? Who is your legal guardian? When are you going? Link to comment
perfectliljewel Posted August 11, 2005 Author Share Posted August 11, 2005 Josh's family is OK with this? Did you mother say she disowned you, or did she actually sign her rights over legally? Who is your legal guardian? When are you going? ya we all talked about. she signed her rights over i guess probably joshs aunt ive already started moving Link to comment
DN Posted August 11, 2005 Share Posted August 11, 2005 Who drew up the papers - a lawyer? Link to comment
perfectliljewel Posted August 11, 2005 Author Share Posted August 11, 2005 i dont know josh got them Link to comment
Hope75 Posted August 12, 2005 Share Posted August 12, 2005 How old are the siblings you are taking with you? Is Josh's aunt going to care for them while you are in school? You ARE going back to school, right?? I know you don't want to think about this, but I think it's important that you do. You've been seeing Josh for 4 months now, and you are both VERY young. Have you thought about what might happen if you two should get tired of each other and break up? Where will you go? And where will your siblings go? It's very selfish to move those children around and then in 6 months your relationship breaks up and you have to move them again. I worry about you and your siblings, since time and time again it's shown that relationships that start out when you are as young as you are don't last. This is a very adult life you are trying to lead, and it may well backfire in your face. I hope for your sake that I am wrong, but in most cases they don't last, and I wonder if you've thought of alternate plans. Link to comment
perfectliljewel Posted August 12, 2005 Author Share Posted August 12, 2005 ill deal with it when it happens they understand that we may not last forever they are 1 5 and 6. i can go to friends houses and stuff and they would come with me. we will both be going to school and working so we wont spend all our time together. well me josh and his aunt are going to do algebra WOOHOO!! not Link to comment
Hope75 Posted August 13, 2005 Share Posted August 13, 2005 It's very big of Josh's aunt to take all of you in like this. I just hope everything works out for the best for all of you. Link to comment
perfectliljewel Posted August 13, 2005 Author Share Posted August 13, 2005 ya i guess Link to comment
darkblue Posted August 13, 2005 Share Posted August 13, 2005 Oh, the enthusiasm Jewels. Yes, I'm back. How are ya? Link to comment
Hope75 Posted August 13, 2005 Share Posted August 13, 2005 I was wondering if now that you are sharing close quarters with Josh and his family, are you planning to try and cut back on your destructive behaviours? As in, not drinking, using drugs, and not cutting yourself? Someone will notice if you are, and that might be a good thing, maybe Josh's aunt will get you the help you deserve if she finds out. This is a big step, changing the environment for you and your siblings, and they are more dependant on you then ever now, so it's important to be a good role model for them and not do these crazy things, since they look up to you for how to act. What do you think? Link to comment
perfectliljewel Posted August 14, 2005 Author Share Posted August 14, 2005 I was wondering if now that you are sharing close quarters with Josh and his family, are you planning to try and cut back on your destructive behaviours? As in, not drinking, using drugs, and not cutting yourself? Someone will notice if you are, and that might be a good thing, maybe Josh's aunt will get you the help you deserve if she finds out. This is a big step, changing the environment for you and your siblings, and they are more dependant on you then ever now, so it's important to be a good role model for them and not do these crazy things, since they look up to you for how to act. What do you think? well they all drink and im tryn not to do drugs and i havnt cut n like a week i havent had a reason to Link to comment
Hope75 Posted August 14, 2005 Share Posted August 14, 2005 e] well they all drink and im tryn not to do drugs and i havnt cut n like a week i havent had a reason to Not cutting is a step in the right direction, and by "they all" I assume you don't mean your baby siblings, who are looking up to you to know how to act? If "they all" jump off the Empire State Building, I'm assuming you would not jump? I hope you will continue to try and do the right thing for these children since you are their oldest and most mature familial connection now, and that is an enormous responsibility. Are you ready to be their role model? To have what you do shape who they become? Link to comment
perfectliljewel Posted August 14, 2005 Author Share Posted August 14, 2005 i have kind of always been there role model so its no different except im in a different house and people actully care about what i do. and no my siblings dont drink i would kill them. but ya its all working out so far Link to comment
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