should i call him?

[SaRaHmArIe8588]

Last night i had an amazing night with a guy ive known ..well, all my life actually. we got to talking and decided to go for a walk( at 1 am) and it was so dark and could barely see. we ended up in field and were making out ..we decided we wanted to go back to my house and fool around so we walked back as he held me. he told me that since we knew eachother so long this was so bad and so wrong but he said it felt so right ..and it did. we went back to my house and laid under the stars wrapped up in his sleeping bag in my backyard and fooled around until 5 am and i had to get ready for work. he told me not to forget about him and he gave me his number...which i already had..but never really call him since we dont see eachother that often anymore.. now, i was thinkin about callin him like, tuesday to see if we can get together, but now im thinking i dont know how he really feels..because, i probably should of mentioned, he was drunk at the time...but around 5 am he seemed stable and gave me a kiss goodbye. i dont know what i should do. Should i call him and talk to him? or should i just be glad we had that one night and just forget it cause he was drunk and probably doesnt really care.

[DN]

Call him - you have nothing to lose.

[justpaisley]

I'm sorry if I offend you, but it seems like you're having a new attraction or fling or hookup with a different guy every couple of days. I've read a lot of your posts and I just get that impression. Again, I don't mean to offend. Could you maybe be addicted to boys?

[Hope75]

How does he feel about the fact that you have a baby?

 

Are you raising your baby?

[SaRaHmArIe8588]

well..like i said, ive known him all my life, hes a family friend, we were tgether a few times during my pregnancy and he always helped if i needed anything and he saw kianna about 3 times since she was born..he really loves her..

[Hope75]

As long as he knows the whole story, and he's willing to accept you and your baby as a package deal, why not give him a call? These kind of guys are rare!

[Cydeways]

call him or your a meanie

[SaRaHmArIe8588]

well..i called him and he was VERY surprised to hear from me. he told me that he didnt think i was gonna call him because he figured i'd wake up in the morning and be like wow im stupid , weve known eachother since we were in diapers. any way..we talked for a bit and we are making plans to spend the weekend together at my house. hopefully it all works out! i need some fun right now!

[SaRaHmArIe8588]

well..i called him and he was VERY surprised to hear from me. he told me that he didnt think i was gonna call him because he figured i'd wake up in the morning and be like wow im stupid , weve known eachother since we were in diapers. any way..we talked for a bit and we are making plans to spend the weekend together at my house. hopefully it all works out! i need some fun right now!

[SaRaHmArIe8588]

oops ..didnt mean to post twice. lol

[Cydeways]

good job

[elveden]

You've gotta find out how he really feels. People don't often lie about the way they feel when they're drunk, quite the opposite infact. Being drunk is like being on a small dose of truth serum.

 

definitely call him - find out. You'll never know if you don't.. and that would be awful.

 

It's really worse not knowing for the rest of your life..