hissyfit Posted July 12, 2005 Share Posted July 12, 2005 cagetet etaewtaewte ae tawetaetewat Link to comment
Cadence308 Posted July 12, 2005 Share Posted July 12, 2005 OMG! Hon, you need to know what is going on and you have every right to wonder! She makes passes at you and attacks you and now you are going out of town with her and her new boyfriend. That is crazy. You need to call her and tell her that you need to talk to her in person. If you are just her back-up plan then you need to drop her! Keep us posted! Link to comment
hissyfit Posted July 12, 2005 Author Share Posted July 12, 2005 aertet aetewtae aet ew ewb Link to comment
melrich Posted July 12, 2005 Share Posted July 12, 2005 I can give you the benefit of my very brief experience. My partner would class herself as bisexual and has had a number of flings with other women ( when she was single). But she always said that while she enjoyed being with other woman she would never get into a serious commited relationship with one, she would only do that with a guy. I guess because she always wanted the traditional marriage with children thing. Maybe this is how your friend thinks? Link to comment
hissyfit Posted July 12, 2005 Author Share Posted July 12, 2005 richgabe I think that is a big possibility. She has told me that she doesn't want to get married and that either she won't have children or she will adopt. Still, I think it's possible that she would only want to have a relationship with a guy. Link to comment
Cadence308 Posted July 12, 2005 Share Posted July 12, 2005 You don't like this and you have every reason not to. Nobody wants to be someone's back-up plan. Does she know how you feel about her? Talk to her and make your feelings and boundaries clear. And tell her, "I am not your back-up plan." And move on! Link to comment
hissyfit Posted July 12, 2005 Author Share Posted July 12, 2005 aerewt bew aetewtewa ateewatbewt Link to comment
Cadence308 Posted July 12, 2005 Share Posted July 12, 2005 I completely understand that it may not be you. But, you can continue letting "confrontation" not be you and end up getting really, really hurt or lay it on the line. I prefer to keep my heart in tact and would lay it on the line. GL! Link to comment
patience Posted July 12, 2005 Share Posted July 12, 2005 Talk to her and tell her how you are feeling. You deserve to know where you stand. If she has any integrity at all, she will be open and honest with you. Link to comment
hissyfit Posted July 12, 2005 Author Share Posted July 12, 2005 aetewt bw aetewate aeteatewat Link to comment
Cadence308 Posted July 13, 2005 Share Posted July 13, 2005 You probably should have used that as a follow-up question after she told you that she is madly in love with this guy and his son. You definitely need to ask her because she is using you for sex and as a back-up plan. Now that you know, you need to consider no contact because it will help you to move on and find someone worthy of your time and affections. You deserve it!!! Link to comment
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